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Illinois (IL) Fetish Clubs & BDSM Clubs

  • United States of America (USA) > Illinois (IL)
  • Facebook and Instagram of alternative sex. There is no place for many popular and successful social networks because if you use one or two – you will not use others, because you don’t have time and because you can already find all people at networks you use. So at the place which we will discover to you, you will find the most of various perverts in your location and in locations you plan to visit. That place is in the top 3000 most visited websites of the world and has the biggest user base among fetish and BDSM people
  • United States of America (USA) > Illinois (IL)
  • Number 1 non-vanilla dating app for BDSM/fetish sex - the Tinder+Bumble+OkCupid+Badoo, all in the same place, but full of naked photos of bodies, dicks and vaginas of members who want only one thing: no string attached perverted sex with you!
  • Illinois (IL) > Aurora city #
  • A meeting place for kinky, poly, sex-positive people in and around the Aurora (Illinois) area to meet, talk and and mingle. We also welcome announcements for groups, clubs, activities, and events happening in, or of interest to, those living in Aurora, the Fox River Valley, and western suburbs. Just about anything goes as long as you are being nice and respectful. Rules: Don’t go looking for a quickie. We don’t object to a clever well-thought-out add in the open forum, telling us about yourself, and what you’re looking for or interested in, but this isn’t a “hook-up” group. We get it — (honestly we’re all horny looking to get laid this weekend) — but you are not going to win…
  • Illinois (IL) > Burbank
  • Join BCI pearls, a group that holds discussions regarding various aspects of the BDSM lifestyle. All above 21 are free to join!
  • Illinois (IL) > Chicago city
  • Are you interested in meeting your special submissive or Do/me partner? Look no more. Join BDSM personals Chicago.
  • United States of America (USA) > Illinois (IL)
  • There are a variety of lifestyle groups in Central Illinois that have monthly munches and/or gatherings. Hopefully you can find it here and if you know of anything else going on please let us know. Please feel free to post information about upcoming events, or ask questions. We encourage people to be involved and participate. Rules: Please use some common sense and courtesy when posting to the group. I don’t want any flaming or personal attacks of any kind here either. Keep it respectful and be nice. This isn’t a group for personal ads. Don’t advertise for partners, hookups, etc. There are places you can go to find what you’re looking for, that doesn’t involve making spammy “lookin for nookie?”…
  • United States of America (USA) > Illinois (IL)
  • The Central Illinois Beginners group is a safe place for all ages, sexes, orientations, and kink minded people. This group is geared towards sharing education, knowledge, experiences, and as a safe place for anyone to come and pose questions, begin discussions, and express concerns regarding kinks, fetishes, play, protocol and safety. [This group is open to all members of the BDSM Community but is primarily aimed at those who are first starting to explore the kink “lifestyle”. Education and knowledge are great things to expand on and discuss by all people so, please do not feel that being outside of the Central Illinois or an experienced kinkster prohibits one from joining.] Rules: This group is considered a safe place for…
  • United States of America (USA) > Illinois (IL)
  • This group is for the under 35 crowd out there who don’t know what to expect from munches and play parties in the Central Illinois area. We hope to alleviate some of your fears and shyness about going to these events as well as organizing groups of friends to go to these events. We want you to feel comfortable with getting involved in the local community. Please use this space to introduce yourself to other younger kinksters. ATTENTION: This group is not affiliated with any munches in the area. For more information regarding munches, feel free to join the other Central Illinois groups! Rules: No personal ads are allowed in this forum. All personal ads will be removed as soon as they…
  • Illinois (IL) > Chicago city
  • For those in the Chicagoland area, and a few mid-western neighbors, who are interested in Ageplay & all its’ forms. Whether you’re curious and want to see what it’s all about or whether you’ve been playing at it for years. For “parents”, “relatives”, caregivers, authority figures, and littles of all ages. Especially for ageplay related event announcements. Munches, events and play parties are all venues for you to get to know other age players and work to create your own relationships and scenes. Ageplayers usually eroticize childishness or youthfulness. To be clear, Ageplay is not pedophilia, Ageplay occurs uniquely between consenting adults. Play can be sexual or non-sexual, depending, of course, on the players involved. Like many things in the…
  • Illinois (IL) > Chicago city
  • Crossdressers across the Chicago area and the people who like us! Rules: Don’t be a dick. Or we’ll do what crossdressers do and tuck you away so no one sees you. Keep all topics related to cross dressing! Post all events in the Events sticky! Have a profile if you’re trying to meet people. Don’t make posts that are degrading to anyone. Repeat posts will be deleted.
  • Illinois (IL) > Chicago city
  • A list created to act as a guide to members of the BDSM lifestyle in Chicago. The list can be used by families, singles and couples interested in finding a partner!
  • Illinois (IL) > Chicago city
  • Share your bondage experiences with others. Chicago bondage is a premier bondage lover online hang out!
  • Illinois (IL) > Chicago city
  • This is a group whose primary purpose is to bring together Dominants or Submissives from Chicago and surrounding areas to share ideas by creating discussions on BDSM/Kink and everyday life topics as well as making announcements for our area about upcoming events in our community. Personal ads are not welcome.  Ads will be deleted and the poster will be removed from the group so they have the opportunity to read the rules again should they care to rejoin. Rules: Contributors are expected to behave like adults. This means following FetLife’s TOU rules and community guidelines, treating other members of this group with courtesy and respect, having a complete and active profile and not changing your opening thread unless to edit…
  • Illinois (IL) > Chicago city
  • A brotherhood of men who have a shared interest in gay s/m sex. The club provides education to its members and encourages the safe and consensual practice of lifestyle!
  • Illinois (IL) > Chicago city
  • A leather club whose mission is to promote the respect and dignity of Chicago’s leather community by positive reflection of a cross section of the community!
  • Illinois (IL) > Chicago city
  • Christians into BDSM lifestyle are welcome to come share with others and learn how to be better their lives. We do not frown upon lifestyle as other christian groups do.
  • Illinois (IL) > Chicago city
  • CRAM( Chicago Rope And Mummification group) is a group that holds monthly meetings for lovers of rope mummification. Beginners and experts are all welcome!
  • Illinois (IL) > Chicago city
  • Galleria Domain Two (GD2) is a private, membership-only 501(c)(7) nonprofit  social club located in Chicago, IL.  GD2 boasts a 4000+ square foot play space with two large play rooms of unique, high-quality BDSM furniture, two social areas, and a library.  Open every Friday, Saturday and Sunday night, GD2 is the place to meet people with similar interests, find fellowship, and learn about kink, leather, fetish, and BDSM. GD2 and its members embrace the full spectrum of human sexuality and eroticism, from sensualism and playful spanking to heavy BDSM, role-playing to full-time power exchange, crossdressing to Leather, monogamy to swinging to polyamory, curiosity to fetishes, and all points in between and beyond. We welcome everyone with a genuine interest in the full range of human…
  • United States of America (USA) > Illinois (IL)
  • I have been interested in Glory Holes for some time now, but it is hard to find a decent, organized listing. So, I decided to make a group for each state. Open to all, but please only list holes that reside in this state, as there will be a group for every state. Try to list addresses if known, for those who may not be familiar with certain cities. Also, please list if said hole is serviced by males, females, or both, and what days are good to frequent them. Rules: Just be good to one another. I don’t actively monitor all of my groups, so if anyone notices a problem please send me a direct message. Please, do not…
  • United States of America (USA) > Illinois (IL)
  • This group is for anyone in IL or nearby to meet their match! Doesn’t matter what your d/s status is, all are welcome. Please see the rules! No asshats allowed! Financial predators will not be tolerated and most likely banned from our group. Financial Doms and Dominatrixes— YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED! Invite your friends! Rules: (these could be updated at some point) **Please include location (or an area if you want to keep exact location private) **Please don’t type a huge paragraph, keep the ad simple if you want someone to read it. Post only one personal ad a week please! Negative, unrelated, or sarcastic comments in reply to a personal ad will be deleted by a mod. If there’s…
  • Illinois (IL) > Chicago city
  • An upbeat leather club for the upbeat leather lovers. Host of the popular Mr. Leather Competition!
  • Illinois (IL) > Joliet city
  • PUT YOUR ADS HERE Simple. Rules: What Hella says….goes. Don’t block the mods or you’ll be removed.
  • Illinois (IL) > Chicago city
  • A large BDSM play space in the Midwest. Host of two national pansexual BDSM events (Kollege and Sinsations) held once every year!
  • Illinois (IL) > Springfield city
  • A diverse group of people who like to practice the leather lifestyle in our homes and fellowship with others on regular occasions. Join us and spice up your sexual life!


  • Illinois (IL) > Chicago city
  • An old leather club and BDSM dungeon. Private and discreet place for all open minded adults to have fun together. All are welcome
  • United States of America (USA) > Illinois (IL)
  • A best place to start and continue your insanely active and at the same time safe alternative sexual life. It’s a way better to start it online and prepare for meetings in real life than do it at the bar or at the night club. Even BDSM dungeons and fetish conventions can be a great discouragement if you visit them without preparation. BTW most dungeons and local misstresses have their pages at the place we talk about.

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