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  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Facebook and Instagram of alternative sex. There is no place for many popular and successful social networks because if you use one or two – you will not use others, because you don’t have time and because you can already find all people at networks you use. So at the place which we will discover to you, you will find the most of various perverts in your location and in locations you plan to visit. That place is in the top 3000 most visited websites of the world and has the biggest user base among fetish and BDSM people
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Number 1 non-vanilla dating app for BDSM/fetish sex - the Tinder+Bumble+OkCupid+Badoo, all in the same place, but full of naked photos of bodies, dicks and vaginas of members who want only one thing: no string attached perverted sex with you!
  • San Francisco > San Francisco City
  • This group is for Bisexual+ people in the greater San Francisco Bay Area to meet, discuss topics, and enjoy the company of like-minded people. You are welcome to join if you have any identity but this group is probably most relevant to those that that include: Bi/Pansexual, Hetero/Homoflexible, Bi-curious, Queer, etc. Feel free to post an intro in the stickies Rules: I can’t believe I need remind people of this there’s zero tolerance for derogatory, phobic BS. Spirited debate is strongly encouraged! If you don’t know the difference between #1 and #2 above, find another group. High-quality personal ads are A-OKAY! We’ll remove any post (particularly ads) that are uninformative. Example: “Who wants to suck my dick?” from a straight dude…
  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • Welcome to @play, a movement of likeminded souls, committed to bringing something a little different to the LA scene. We produce parties, mostly in West LA, that may appeal to some hyper-specific niche, or a small group of people. We also rent our space at very affordable rates for your kinky adventures. Sex-positive, body-positive, gender affirming, socially responsible. Let us be your safe space to explore.
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Place for the young to chat amongst ourselves and get together. (Cali preferred, but all over welcomed, we won’t shun you 🙂 Rules: Please be close to age group, few years off is fine. But this group is for the younger crowd to talk to each other and share. Be respectful. Have fun :). No advertising!
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • A place for 209 residents to learn about, and discuss kink. We are all members of the same community, let’s use this space to create a safe BDSM environment. Rules: All we ask is that everyone follows our Prime Directive of: “Be polite and respectful.” We wish to keep things casual and friendly. Please avoid using actual names on this group in order to protect anonymity. Confidentiality is of paramount importance to the group. Everyone is expected to maintain confidentiality of identities, statements, and actions within the group. Violations of confidentiality can result in immediate banning. All members must be 18 years old and up. No exceptions. Moderators can ask for verification in cases where we think there might be…
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Doesn’t it just frustrate you, when you come across of a profile, of a hot, young, Dom/sub/fetishist, and they seem to have a great personality, but end up being in like….Nebraska or something? Or even 5 hours away in LA? Well, now us NorCal’ers will have a place to congregate, and meet people close to us! 😀 Cool Things: Feel free to post any sort of discussion topics you like, even if it’s not kink related. Classifieds are welcomed, and encouraged. Everyone should have someone to love! Ranting/getting minor frustrations off your chest (just don’t use actual names and stuff) Uncool Things: Starting flame wars Being a troll Being way over the age of 35 (Boo on lechers! Hisssss) Having…
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • This is a geography-specific group. It is for kinksters who live in or spend significant amounts of time in the 408 area code (including the new 669 “overlay”). Cities include San Jose, Santa Clara, Campbell, Sunnyvale, Milpitas and surrounding townships. Feel free to post an introduction if you like (or just lurk, if you’re shy). Post pertinent discussion topics, share your thoughts and get to know your fellow 408 area code residents. Announcements about upcoming events and activities in our 408/669 area code are also welcome! Announcements about events outside the 408/669 area code are not permitted! If your announcement includes or pertains to other area codes, please do not post it here. (If in doubt, please ask offlist FIRST.) Off-topic posts and personal rants about…
  • San Francisco > San Francisco City
  • Through social interaction, we promote charitable and educational activities. All our activities are directed those with an interest in levi, leather and SM. Welcome
  • Alameda > Alameda City
  • Alameda County Leather Corps (ACLC) is a a tax-exempt 501(c)(3) non-profit organization serving the East Bay community. The club is composed mostly of residents from San Francisco’s East Bay and South Bay. Our purpose is to promote educational and charitable activities through social interaction among people with an interest in leather, Levi’s, uniforms, and latex. Originally loosely organized as a part of the Imperial Star Empire of Alameda County, the first Mr. Alameda County Leather contest was staged in 1992. ACLC in its current incarnation was formally organized in 1993, and our 501(c)(3) status was granted in 1999. Our primary mission is to provide education, fund-raising and fellowship. About Our Members Membership in ACLC is fairly evenly distributed between men…
  • Los Angeles > Anaheim City
  • Do you live in or near Anaheim, CA? There are so many places that would be fun to go as a group. The Anaheim Locals Fetlife Group is for: Promotion of any BDSM related activities such as Munches, Socials, Dungeon Sponsored play parties, Discussion Groups regardless of gender or sexual orientation. It is not for personal advertisements, work or employment offers or requests and not for financial exploitation. If you are interested in promoting your event: PLEASE BE ADVISED THAT IF YOU OR ANY OF YOUR HANG-AROUNDS ( lol ) HAVE BLOCKED A MODERATOR…. THEN JUST “forget about it” and move on. please make sure that The Group Moderator has approved your Event before you post. Make sure that it…
  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • This group is for those sexy individuals/cpl/groups who want to set up anonymous encounters. For one on one meetings or group. For those who also are interested to know. I am also owner of the world famous, yes, I did say world famous, Gang Bang Pleasures or GBP for short. We have cpls, & single ladies from around the world who contact us to arrange gang bangs for them. Ladies fly in as far as Europe, & even Australia. even the Porn industry has approached us to host Gang Bangs for them, as well as asked to attend our parties to learn from us & join in on the fun. I will only verify or endorse those ladies I played…
  • Los Angeles > Carson City
  • A group that welcomes those who participate in or are interested in learning more about leather, tops, bottoms, B&D, S&M and all other non-vanilla relationships. All who are interested can contact us to find out more about our parties, munches and meetings
  • Kern > Bakersfield
  • We are a pan sexual group, open to anyone local to Bakersfield or surrounding areas. If you NEVER thought Bakersfield would have a kinky group…. you are not alone! But we are here and going strong for almost 21 years now… We host monthly munches and other activities during the month… If you wish to meet like minded people in your area… Come join us! Rules: We are about respect. This is not only toward our members, but to those who visit us and we visit equally. That said, please do not post events to our group page for the same time and date that we post events. We usually post events for the first and third Saturdays of the…
  • Los Angeles > Hollywood
  • Bar Sinister is not an ordinary bar but the ultimate location for all young fetish lovers. Come have fun in a place with a trendy crowd. sensually sophisticated dark & seductive a taste of PurgatorY… that can raise every hair on one’s body send ripples through every nipple in the room hypnotize one’s body & soul into complete submission of pure pleasure and all with your clothes on… until you get home anyways!
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • BARE (Bay Area Rope Exchange) is a group of rope bondage enthusiasts who aim to foster a strong, informed, and growing San Francisco Bay Area rope community by: organizing and hosting events, with a special focus on exhibiting at the Folsom Street Fair annually promoting bondage education advocating bondage safety While our focus is on the local rope community, we support connections with the worldwide rope community, such as by welcoming non-locals interested in teaching here or attending our events. Rules: This group is for event and class announcements, to find practice partners, and to share resources, information and inspiration. We are located in the SF Bay Area but are open to posts about any rope-related events in the US…
  • San Francisco > San Francisco City
  • A place for all to meet and have fun regardless of your sexual orientation, Come share all your fantasies and get a chance to indulge in adventures to explore your sexuality. We allow swingers, bi’s and even gang bangs. What are you waiting for?
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • A place for those into ageplay. California’s bay area is big, but that means the potential for more meetups, connecting, and yes, events! Chat about local on-goings and meet your fellow local ageplayers.  
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • A place for crossdressers and their admirers of the SF bay area to gather, meet, discuss, and share their experiences. Please try to get along! Rules: Please try not to spam this group with needless things. The mod will be watching.
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Raw and animalistic – return to your roots with the taste of absolute flesh. This group is REAL TIME players in the lifestyle that also incorporates D/s into the world of vanilla lifestyle parties. Rules: You must be at least 18 years of age. All participants are to be respectful of each other – we’re adults now people. Racism and prejudice is not tolerated and is justification for termination. Promoting your events are fine as long as they are FREE events – entry fee events are not tolerated, unless approved by the moderator (s) of group. Please, no rants or tangents outside of the conversation in place – if you’re going to bitch, please do so in your own post,…
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Northern California- BBWs and their admirers BDSM munch brings together a supportive atmosphere, social fun, and a few laughs for women of any sizes, identity, and the folks that desire them. This is the first of its kind in the South Bay Area. It is designed to give our beautiful women in the kink community a place to mix, find out about size positive events, and gather with the only focal point is on generously proportioned women. Rules to attending our munch Manners and common courtesy is required. (Be on your best behavior) Please keep all play or toys at home. This is a semi private room. Consensual treatment of staff and patrons is required by all who attend. There…
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • This is the Californian kink group for all larger size ladies and their admirers. Rules: As the group owner, I need to be able to communicate with you in order to do my job. If you are not communicable (no messaging allowed), or hide your profile, there is obviously no way I can do the job. You will be banned. Pretty reasonable no? You are welcome. If you put a profile picture that is NOT you, and got caught, you will be reported and you will be gone. Having a dick picture and not YOURS, you will be reported and gone. Explicit ad is strictly forbidden. People can read your profile. Post your dick pictures in your own profile, not…
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • BDSM_SOCal is a group to help folks find those fun & kinky BDSM events and people. NO PERSONAL ADS ALLOWED It is NOT a group for discussions – please feel free to post those burning questions & personal ads in other more appropriate groups. Rules: BDSM_SOCal is a group for posting BDSM-related events located in the greater Southern California area – covering Los Angeles, Orange, San Bernardino, Riverside, and San Diego Counties. It is NOT a group for discussions – please feel free to post those burning questions & personal ads in other more appropriate groups. Let’s be REAL CLEAR HERE: NO PERSONAL ADS ALLOWED Postings that are not event-related may be summarily deleted with no notice or warning. If I’m feeling…
  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • For more than 15 years now, Bears has been providing an outlet for the LA Bear community. We have various fun events for our members including Mr. Los Angeles Social bear and Mr. LA Leather Bear. Bears LA is mainly a public charity.
  • San Diego > San Diego City
  • Bears San Diego is a club for bears and bear fanciers. We are based in San Diego, California but we have members throughout the United States and even a few from overseas. Bears San Diego was established in San Diego in October 1994 when a need was recognized for a group who did not fit in with the mainstream gays. Within the first year, the club grew to 100 members. In 2003 Bears San Diego took the next step and began our journey to become a Non-Profit 501(c)(3) charitable organization. We finalized the process in the summer of 2006 when Bears San Diego got it’s final approval from the Internal Revenue Service to do business as a Non-Profit Organization. Bears…
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • California Central Valley Leather Alliance is an educational group in the Sacramento area. We are a community active group that believes in education, historic values and current events around the Leather/BDSM lifestyle. Rules: Please ask the owner of the group before posting your events. Thank you.
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Anyone interested in adult breastfeeding and lactation in California is welcome. Yes, you can be from outside of California, but we are trying to give a sense of community for the area…. There are numerous groups dedicated to other areas. Rules: Aggressive personal attacks, criminal accusations, making fun of, trolling, flaming, bullying, racial slurs or any other type of malicious behavior is cause for banishment! Men posting hook up ads will be banned for life.
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • A best place to start and continue your insanely active and at the same time safe alternative sexual life. It’s a way better to start it online and prepare for meetings in real life than do it at the bar or at the night club. Even BDSM dungeons and fetish conventions can be a great discouragement if you visit them without preparation. BTW most dungeons and local misstresses have their pages at the place we talk about.

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