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  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Facebook and Instagram of alternative sex. There is no place for many popular and successful social networks because if you use one or two – you will not use others, because you don’t have time and because you can already find all people at networks you use. So at the place which we will discover to you, you will find the most of various perverts in your location and in locations you plan to visit. That place is in the top 3000 most visited websites of the world and has the biggest user base among fetish and BDSM people
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Number 1 non-vanilla dating app for BDSM/fetish sex - the Tinder+Bumble+OkCupid+Badoo, all in the same place, but full of naked photos of bodies, dicks and vaginas of members who want only one thing: no string attached perverted sex with you!
feim0828
  • San Francisco > San Francisco City
  • This group is for Bisexual+ people in the greater San Francisco Bay Area to meet, discuss topics, and enjoy the company of like-minded people. You are welcome to join if you have any identity but this group is probably most relevant to those that that include: Bi/Pansexual, Hetero/Homoflexible, Bi-curious, Queer, etc. Feel free to post an intro in the stickies Rules: I can’t believe I need remind people of this there’s zero tolerance for derogatory, phobic BS. Spirited debate is strongly encouraged! If you don’t know the difference between #1 and #2 above, find another group. High-quality personal ads are A-OKAY! We’ll remove any post (particularly ads) that are uninformative. Example: “Who wants to suck my dick?” from a straight dude…
feim0270
  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • Welcome to @play, a movement of likeminded souls, committed to bringing something a little different to the LA scene. We produce parties, mostly in West LA, that may appeal to some hyper-specific niche, or a small group of people. We also rent our space at very affordable rates for your kinky adventures. Sex-positive, body-positive, gender affirming, socially responsible. Let us be your safe space to explore.
feim0485
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Place for the young to chat amongst ourselves and get together. (Cali preferred, but all over welcomed, we won’t shun you 🙂 Rules: Please be close to age group, few years off is fine. But this group is for the younger crowd to talk to each other and share. Be respectful. Have fun :). No advertising!
feim0619
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • A place for 209 residents to learn about, and discuss kink. We are all members of the same community, let’s use this space to create a safe BDSM environment. Rules: All we ask is that everyone follows our Prime Directive of: “Be polite and respectful.” We wish to keep things casual and friendly. Please avoid using actual names on this group in order to protect anonymity. Confidentiality is of paramount importance to the group. Everyone is expected to maintain confidentiality of identities, statements, and actions within the group. Violations of confidentiality can result in immediate banning. All members must be 18 years old and up. No exceptions. Moderators can ask for verification in cases where we think there might be…
feim0529
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Doesn’t it just frustrate you, when you come across of a profile, of a hot, young, Dom/sub/fetishist, and they seem to have a great personality, but end up being in like….Nebraska or something? Or even 5 hours away in LA? Well, now us NorCal’ers will have a place to congregate, and meet people close to us! 😀 Cool Things: Feel free to post any sort of discussion topics you like, even if it’s not kink related. Classifieds are welcomed, and encouraged. Everyone should have someone to love! Ranting/getting minor frustrations off your chest (just don’t use actual names and stuff) Uncool Things: Starting flame wars Being a troll Being way over the age of 35 (Boo on lechers! Hisssss) Having…
feim0734
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • This is a geography-specific group. It is for kinksters who live in or spend significant amounts of time in the 408 area code (including the new 669 “overlay”). Cities include San Jose, Santa Clara, Campbell, Sunnyvale, Milpitas and surrounding townships. Feel free to post an introduction if you like (or just lurk, if you’re shy). Post pertinent discussion topics, share your thoughts and get to know your fellow 408 area code residents. Announcements about upcoming events and activities in our 408/669 area code are also welcome! Announcements about events outside the 408/669 area code are not permitted! If your announcement includes or pertains to other area codes, please do not post it here. (If in doubt, please ask offlist FIRST.) Off-topic posts and personal rants about…
feim0002
  • San Francisco > San Francisco City
  • Through social interaction, we promote charitable and educational activities. All our activities are directed those with an interest in levi, leather and SM. Welcome
feim0305
  • Alameda > Alameda City
  • Alameda County Leather Corps (ACLC) is a a tax-exempt 501(c)(3) non-profit organization serving the East Bay community. The club is composed mostly of residents from San Francisco’s East Bay and South Bay. Our purpose is to promote educational and charitable activities through social interaction among people with an interest in leather, Levi’s, uniforms, and latex. Originally loosely organized as a part of the Imperial Star Empire of Alameda County, the first Mr. Alameda County Leather contest was staged in 1992. ACLC in its current incarnation was formally organized in 1993, and our 501(c)(3) status was granted in 1999. Our primary mission is to provide education, fund-raising and fellowship. About Our Members Membership in ACLC is fairly evenly distributed between men…
feim0673
  • Los Angeles > Anaheim City
  • Do you live in or near Anaheim, CA? There are so many places that would be fun to go as a group. The Anaheim Locals Fetlife Group is for: Promotion of any BDSM related activities such as Munches, Socials, Dungeon Sponsored play parties, Discussion Groups regardless of gender or sexual orientation. It is not for personal advertisements, work or employment offers or requests and not for financial exploitation. If you are interested in promoting your event: PLEASE BE ADVISED THAT IF YOU OR ANY OF YOUR HANG-AROUNDS ( lol ) HAVE BLOCKED A MODERATOR…. THEN JUST “forget about it” and move on. please make sure that The Group Moderator has approved your Event before you post. Make sure that it…
feim0557
  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • This group is for those sexy individuals/cpl/groups who want to set up anonymous encounters. For one on one meetings or group. For those who also are interested to know. I am also owner of the world famous, yes, I did say world famous, Gang Bang Pleasures or GBP for short. We have cpls, & single ladies from around the world who contact us to arrange gang bangs for them. Ladies fly in as far as Europe, & even Australia. even the Porn industry has approached us to host Gang Bangs for them, as well as asked to attend our parties to learn from us & join in on the fun. I will only verify or endorse those ladies I played…
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • A best place to start and continue your insanely active and at the same time safe alternative sexual life. It’s a way better to start it online and prepare for meetings in real life than do it at the bar or at the night club. Even BDSM dungeons and fetish conventions can be a great discouragement if you visit them without preparation. BTW most dungeons and local misstresses have their pages at the place we talk about.

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