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New York (NY) Fetish Clubs & BDSM Clubs

  • United States of America (USA) > New York (NY)
  • Facebook and Instagram of alternative sex. There is no place for many popular and successful social networks because if you use one or two – you will not use others, because you don’t have time and because you can already find all people at networks you use. So at the place which we will discover to you, you will find the most of various perverts in your location and in locations you plan to visit. That place is in the top 3000 most visited websites of the world and has the biggest user base among fetish and BDSM people
  • United States of America (USA) > New York (NY)
  • Number 1 non-vanilla dating app for BDSM/fetish sex - the Tinder+Bumble+OkCupid+Badoo, all in the same place, but full of naked photos of bodies, dicks and vaginas of members who want only one thing: no string attached perverted sex with you!
  • New York > New York City
  • The BBW NYC group’s purpose is to promote size acceptance among the kinky folk of the New York City area. There will be a monthly munch and other social activities. All BBWs, BHMs, and their admirers are welcome in to this group. Everything must have a start somewhere, and what better time than now! Rules: If the post gets deleted you obviously did something wrong! Group is open to anyone and everyone, but focus is on the lovely BBWs, and the men and women who adore them.
  • New York > New York City
  • A group for anyone in and around the New York area, who enjoys the pleasures of BDSM. What ever your fetish might be here is the place to share with people in your area. If you are posting an event do not post it more than once BOTH will be deleted. Rules: If you block a moderator you will be removed from the group.
  • Albany > Albany City
  • Bear Albany is dedicated to giving back to our community through charity events and great parties! While our focus remains on the Bear Community, our goal is to help unify all areas of the gay community in the Albany’s Capital District and beyond.
  • Kings > Brooklyn Borough
  • This is a catch-all list for Kinksters of all stripes and desires in, around, or interested in Brooklyn, NY. It’s a shame that Brooklynites and our communities are under-served by this site, and this group is here to help rectify that. So from Coney Island to Green Point, from Sunset Park to Canarsie and everywhere in between, feel free to join up and post as you see fit! Please review Group Rules before joining & have fun! Rules: Do you live in Brooklyn? Want to? Know people there? Want to? Just a fan? Or want to travel here? Then you’re in! Don’t be a jerk. If you are a jerk, don’t pretend that you weren’t one. Apologize for transgressions, make…
  • Erie > Buffalo City
  • The Buffalo Bears Club, a non-profit organization, was founded in the summer of 1999. We are a social club for self-described bears and their admirers. We meet together every second Saturday in Buffalo at 10pm at Preservation Pub, located at 948 Main St. With monitored Parking conveniently located across from the bar. Guests are more than welcomed to attend our meetings and immediately following, we host our monthly Bear Bar Night. What kinds of things does your club do? We host social events of interest to our members. Past events include but are not limited to our monthly Bear Nights, Bear Camping, Coffee Nights, Game Nights, Group “field trips”, LaserTron, Movie Nights, Oscar Night, Picnics, bowling and potluck Dinners. We…
  • Niagara > Niagara Falls City
  • UPCOMING BAR NIGHTS Jan:  Long John Night Feb: Red Hot Leather March: Military Madness April :Sports Gear May : Latex June : Show Your Colors July : Show Your Firecracker Aug :  Kilt Night Sept : Blue Collar Night Oct : Leather Bear Night Nov : Spanksgiving Dec : Naughty or Nice
  • New York > New York City
  • A group of crossdressers and and sissys in the New York area to talk and meet and do outings Rules: You must be from NY or visit NY very frequently
  • New York > New York City
  • A bit about us: We are a Friendly NYC BDSM Society with weekly educational demos, presentations, workshops, munches, and terrific parties. We’ve been around since Nov 5th, 1999. We’re open to everyone regardless of age, kink desire, age, color, gender, kink and sexual orientation. DomSubFriends is dedicated to creating a positive kindred spirit environment for kinky, open minded people in and around the NYC area; all in a politically free friendly environment. Now for some rules and criteria for this forum: Even Postings are welcomed. We also encourage all topics. That said, DSF is an organization. We try to run a tight ship. The only topics which will be deleted are as follows: Please do not post hate, issues or…
  • New York > New York City
  • •All contain the obvious, such as floggers, whips, crops, leather and wooden paddles, rattan and fiberglass canes, wrist and ankle shackles in leather and steel, spreader bars, weights, blindfolds and gags, cbt devices, nipples clamps of varying intensity, leather hoods, violet wand, chastity devices, hemostats, leather restraints, including arm binders and straitjackets. •A wardrobe for cross-dressers is available: wigs, shoes, lingerie, stockings, maid uniforms, outerwear and, of course, a large selection of cosmetics. •Our dungeon furniture includes bondage tables, spanking horses, a vertical bondage rack, a vintage dental chair, thrones, two 10′ horizontal stretching racks with overhead pulleys (perfect for cbt!), two large cages (suitable for long periods of confinement), spanking benches and horses, and an OBGYN table. •4 of…
  • New York > New York City
  • Femdom/malesub kinksters of the New York metropolitan region. Please keep the content of postings focused on the Femdom/malesub dynamic. Not that there’s anything wrong with other dynamics, but they have their own groups. Rules: No personal ads. No professional ads.
  • Queens > Long Island
  • Life in Nassau is a lifestyle group made up of adults from all walks of life who share a common interest in the scene. We are dedicated to creating a positive, safe and nurturing environment in which to enjoy the lifestyle. We strive to provide a place where adults from beginners to more experienced people can learn and share through lectures, demonstrations, presentations and participation. Some of our many goals are; to help others feel they are not alone as they enter into and/or continue their journey through this lifestyle, to provide a non-judgmental atmosphere in which individuals can pursue their own evolving nature, to freely communicate and socialize with others of similar interests, to explore the meaning of our unique and common experiences and to…
  • Queens > Long Island
  • This group is for those on or near Long Island, NY. Who enjoy the Dom/sub lifestyle. Whether already in a relationship or those who are seeking a new D/s relationship. Rules: Feel free to post an ad seeking a D/s relationship. Provide details about yourself. Be Respectful, Be friendly. Be nice. Have fun! Any ads of events will be deleted after event date. Posts must include date and time. Ads must relate to Dom/sub, Master/Slave dynamic
  • Queens > Long Island
  • a group for long islanders to hook up and meet for threesomes and foursomes  
  • Queens > Long Island
  • A BDSM discussion group for Long Islanders, ex-Long Islanders, or those with fetishes for awesome Lawn Guyland accents. Feel free to post announcements of events happening on L.I. or in the surrounding area. Rules: Feel free to announce your group’s upcoming events, to begin a discussion about lifestyle situations, pose questions that you would like to have varied opinions on, etc. However, this is not a forum for personal ads, they will be removed. Please put the date of the event you are announcing in the subject heading. If it is not included we may add it in. Please do not post the same announcement over and over again. We highlight all upcoming events as “sticky” and will delete excessive…
  • United States of America (USA) > New York (NY)
  • Welcome to New York BDSM. This group was formed to serve as a network/discussion group for New York State. Rules: No personal ads No Spam BDSM events only No events that charge for “sessions”
  • New York > New York City
  • A group for BBW, curvy and thick ladies of New York City and those who are fond of them. Everyone is welcome. Rules: All are welcome, just be respectful. If not, you will be deleted, and quickly. There are stickies for events, personal ads, and introductions. Use them!
  • New York > New York City
  • Space for Pro-Dommes working in the NYC metro area to advertise, network, connect with interested parties and share suggestions for coping with increasingly harsh NYC laws.  
  • United States of America (USA) > New York (NY)
  • New York Cuckold This is a group for all people interested in all aspects of Cuckolding from the State of New York: New York City, suburbs and outlying areas. It is also those visiting this beautiful state, or with any interest in it. This group includes all the archetypes involved in cuckolding. There are none excluded. Every dynamic will be examined. That means people of any orientation who “cuck” and any other type of situation imaginable. There will be no perspectives silenced here. Anyone from anywhere in the world may join the group and feel welcome. You, yourself, define your ideals and relationship within the confines of a cuckolding connection however you wish. Nobody else here will. However, we do…
  • New York > New York City
  • I have been interested in Glory Holes for some time now, but it is hard to find a decent, organized listing. So, I decided to make a group for each state. Open to all, but please only list holes that reside in this state, as there will be a group for every state. Try to list addresses if known, for those who may not be familiar with certain cities. Also, please list if said hole is serviced by males, females, or both, and what days are good to frequent them. Rules: Just be good to one another. I don’t actively monitor all of my groups, so if anyone notices a problem please send me a direct message. Please, do not…
  • Nassau > East Meadow
  • Interested in Women that Spank Men Over Their Laps in Atlantic City
  • New York > New York City
  • NYBondageClub, called NYBC, is the longest running male BDSM party in New York City. We are a club that welcomes Gay, Bi and Curious “Str8” guys who are into Bondage/Sm with other like minded guys. We provide the fetish community with a unique space and atmosphere, where guys of all ages can meet in a SAFE , SANE , CONSENSUAL, and DRUG FREE setting. EVERY SUNDAY We are located at 250 W 26th St, between 7th & 8th Av. Please enter from the front of the building Door opens @ 7pm. Play until 1am Wear as much or as little as you wish. We welcome guys dressed in Leather, rubber, fetish gear, underwear, or nothing at all, or you can…
  • New York > New York City
  • NYC and surrounding areas alternative lifestyle forum for those who are into the BDSM, Swinging, and Gothic/Industrial lifestyle. You’re welcome to post your events and announcements. This place was created to have one location for folks to hook up, post events, as well as, to check out “Alternative Lifestyles” happenings in and around New York City. Rules: NYC and surrounding areas alternative lifestyle forum for those who are into the BDSM, Swinging, and Gothic/Industrial lifestyle. You’re welcome to post your events and announcements. This place was created to have one location for folks to hook up, post events, as well as, to check out “Alternative Lifestyles” happenings in and around New York City.
  • New York > New York City
  • A place where local NYC Dom’s and Baby Girls can meet, talk and share the special bond that we enjoy so much.This is a place for conversation and discussion of relationship issues associated with being the kind of dominant male known as a Daddy Dom and/or a submissive lil partner of a Daddy. Rules: Civility and good manners are ABSOLUTELY required! Granted, there will be a little “bratting” now and then, but direct attacks towards a fellow Daddy/Baby Girls will not be tolerated. If you cannot simply follow this basic rule, please see your way to the door. This group DOES NOT refer specifically to age play. While age play is part of the Daddy Dom -Baby Girls dynamic for…
  • New York > New York City
  • The New York City Fetish Tribe consists of a close knit group of like-minded individuals celebrating fetish and play in a non-judgmental environment. The concept originated with Kelley Dane and Mike B, who worked together to found the notorious AVN After Party in Las Vegas and built it up with the help of Powder, Dicey Doug, and Sir Skully. They decided to bring the party’s open vibe back home to New York, where they soon were joined by others who shared their spirit of adventure, including Nikki the Kink Queen, who helped form the concept into a reality. Today the NYC Fetish Tribe is joined by hundreds of contributors who participate actively in the fetish community around the globe. In…
  • United States of America (USA) > New York (NY)
  • A best place to start and continue your insanely active and at the same time safe alternative sexual life. It’s a way better to start it online and prepare for meetings in real life than do it at the bar or at the night club. Even BDSM dungeons and fetish conventions can be a great discouragement if you visit them without preparation. BTW most dungeons and local misstresses have their pages at the place we talk about.

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