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New York (NY) Fetish Clubs & BDSM Clubs

  • United States of America (USA) > New York (NY)
  • Facebook and Instagram of alternative sex. There is no place for many popular and successful social networks because if you use one or two – you will not use others, because you don’t have time and because you can already find all people at networks you use. So at the place which we will discover to you, you will find the most of various perverts in your location and in locations you plan to visit. That place is in the top 3000 most visited websites of the world and has the biggest user base among fetish and BDSM people
  • United States of America (USA) > New York (NY)
  • Number 1 non-vanilla dating app for BDSM/fetish sex - the Tinder+Bumble+OkCupid+Badoo, all in the same place, but full of naked photos of bodies, dicks and vaginas of members who want only one thing: no string attached perverted sex with you!
  • New York > New York City
  • The BBW NYC group’s purpose is to promote size acceptance among the kinky folk of the New York City area. There will be a monthly munch and other social activities. All BBWs, BHMs, and their admirers are welcome in to this group. Everything must have a start somewhere, and what better time than now! Rules: If the post gets deleted you obviously did something wrong! Group is open to anyone and everyone, but focus is on the lovely BBWs, and the men and women who adore them.
  • New York > New York City
  • A group for anyone in and around the New York area, who enjoys the pleasures of BDSM. What ever your fetish might be here is the place to share with people in your area. If you are posting an event do not post it more than once BOTH will be deleted. Rules: If you block a moderator you will be removed from the group.
  • Albany > Albany City
  • Bear Albany is dedicated to giving back to our community through charity events and great parties! While our focus remains on the Bear Community, our goal is to help unify all areas of the gay community in the Albany’s Capital District and beyond.
  • Kings > Brooklyn Borough
  • This is a catch-all list for Kinksters of all stripes and desires in, around, or interested in Brooklyn, NY. It’s a shame that Brooklynites and our communities are under-served by this site, and this group is here to help rectify that. So from Coney Island to Green Point, from Sunset Park to Canarsie and everywhere in between, feel free to join up and post as you see fit! Please review Group Rules before joining & have fun! Rules: Do you live in Brooklyn? Want to? Know people there? Want to? Just a fan? Or want to travel here? Then you’re in! Don’t be a jerk. If you are a jerk, don’t pretend that you weren’t one. Apologize for transgressions, make…
  • Erie > Buffalo City
  • The Buffalo Bears Club, a non-profit organization, was founded in the summer of 1999. We are a social club for self-described bears and their admirers. We meet together every second Saturday in Buffalo at 10pm at Preservation Pub, located at 948 Main St. With monitored Parking conveniently located across from the bar. Guests are more than welcomed to attend our meetings and immediately following, we host our monthly Bear Bar Night. What kinds of things does your club do? We host social events of interest to our members. Past events include but are not limited to our monthly Bear Nights, Bear Camping, Coffee Nights, Game Nights, Group “field trips”, LaserTron, Movie Nights, Oscar Night, Picnics, bowling and potluck Dinners. We…
  • Niagara > Niagara Falls City
  • UPCOMING BAR NIGHTS Jan:  Long John Night Feb: Red Hot Leather March: Military Madness April :Sports Gear May : Latex June : Show Your Colors July : Show Your Firecracker Aug :  Kilt Night Sept : Blue Collar Night Oct : Leather Bear Night Nov : Spanksgiving Dec : Naughty or Nice
  • New York > New York City
  • A group of crossdressers and and sissys in the New York area to talk and meet and do outings Rules: You must be from NY or visit NY very frequently
  • New York > New York City
  • A bit about us: We are a Friendly NYC BDSM Society with weekly educational demos, presentations, workshops, munches, and terrific parties. We’ve been around since Nov 5th, 1999. We’re open to everyone regardless of age, kink desire, age, color, gender, kink and sexual orientation. DomSubFriends is dedicated to creating a positive kindred spirit environment for kinky, open minded people in and around the NYC area; all in a politically free friendly environment. Now for some rules and criteria for this forum: Even Postings are welcomed. We also encourage all topics. That said, DSF is an organization. We try to run a tight ship. The only topics which will be deleted are as follows: Please do not post hate, issues or…
  • New York > New York City
  • •All contain the obvious, such as floggers, whips, crops, leather and wooden paddles, rattan and fiberglass canes, wrist and ankle shackles in leather and steel, spreader bars, weights, blindfolds and gags, cbt devices, nipples clamps of varying intensity, leather hoods, violet wand, chastity devices, hemostats, leather restraints, including arm binders and straitjackets. •A wardrobe for cross-dressers is available: wigs, shoes, lingerie, stockings, maid uniforms, outerwear and, of course, a large selection of cosmetics. •Our dungeon furniture includes bondage tables, spanking horses, a vertical bondage rack, a vintage dental chair, thrones, two 10′ horizontal stretching racks with overhead pulleys (perfect for cbt!), two large cages (suitable for long periods of confinement), spanking benches and horses, and an OBGYN table. •4 of…
  • New York > New York City
  • Femdom/malesub kinksters of the New York metropolitan region. Please keep the content of postings focused on the Femdom/malesub dynamic. Not that there’s anything wrong with other dynamics, but they have their own groups. Rules: No personal ads. No professional ads.
  • United States of America (USA) > New York (NY)
  • A best place to start and continue your insanely active and at the same time safe alternative sexual life. It’s a way better to start it online and prepare for meetings in real life than do it at the bar or at the night club. Even BDSM dungeons and fetish conventions can be a great discouragement if you visit them without preparation. BTW most dungeons and local misstresses have their pages at the place we talk about.

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