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New York (NY) Fetish Clubs & BDSM Clubs

  • United States of America (USA) > New York (NY)
  • Facebook and Instagram of alternative sex. There is no place for many popular and successful social networks because if you use one or two – you will not use others, because you don’t have time and because you can already find all people at networks you use. So at the place which we will discover to you, you will find the most of various perverts in your location and in locations you plan to visit. That place is in the top 3000 most visited websites of the world and has the biggest user base among fetish and BDSM people
  • United States of America (USA) > New York (NY)
  • Number 1 non-vanilla dating app for BDSM/fetish sex - the Tinder+Bumble+OkCupid+Badoo, all in the same place, but full of naked photos of bodies, dicks and vaginas of members who want only one thing: no string attached perverted sex with you!
  • New York > New York City
  • This is where the sluts and studs who want to gang bang them get together. Please post your fantasies. Everything from a “vanilla” gang bang with 4:1 ratios to big 20:1 parties, double and triple penetrations, interracial gang bangs should be talked about here. Gang Bang girls (or bottoms in general) please voice your desires and boundaries here so we can perhaps help fulfill your wishes.  
  • New York > New York City
  • A Group for everyone involved, curious or interested in the NYC Swing Scene.  
  • New York > New York City
  • Club is temporarily closed. Paddles NYC, like the best Doms, is not shy about its attributes. This celebrated kink-friendly venue claims to have not just a stunning pantheon of pain, but ‘the best-equipped dungeon on earth.’ Paddles NYC is in the business of making fantasies realities. It is big and bold, boasting a 5,000 square foot multi-level play space. Whether you’re into spanking, whipping, foot fetishes, cross-dressing – and much more – Paddles NYC is your destination. Established back in 1984, Paddles NYC knows its stuff. Owner, Master Michael, a spanking enthusiast, teamed up paddle expert Mistress Laura to set the gold standard in New York’s fetish clubs. Paddles NYC welcomes everyone, offering a friendly, judgment-free environment for all genders,…
  • New York > New York City
  • Come and play in one of our 7 exotic luxurious rooms. Our facility is a collective of amazing Dommes and submissive’s striving to build trust in a safe and healthy environment. Rooms are available to Independents, couples and film/photo shoots. In order to comply with the city and state mandate, all customers and employees are required to wear facial coverings while in our facility. We appreciate your partnership in helping keep our community safe. The venue does not employ dommes; they’re independent operators, meaning they have a diverse and devilish set of talents. There are more than 30 New York-based Dommes plying their trade from Pandoras Box NYC, and many more out of town ladies. The choice is as broad…
  • Monroe > Rochester City
  • RKS is neither a sex club, swingers group, nor dating service; don’t expect to see or get sex. RKS is a place to meet other kinky people, but it is up to you to be social and encourage friendship-building. If you happen to meet someone through RKS and hit it off, we’re happy for you! But becoming a member makes no guarantees when it comes to finding a relationship. Expect to take some initiative on socializing- someone will show you around when you arrive and some members will introduce themselves. But, others will be busy catching up with friends they haven’t seen in a while— be prepared to introduce yourself or join in a conversation. Hiding in the corner is…
  • New York > New York City
  • The World’s Most Exclusive Members-Only Club https://youtu.be/mp-ROaH_5tI The Club exists to serve the social and entertainment needs of our members and guests by maintaining the highest standards of excellence in all endeavors, by providing creative and culturally rich programs, and by providing a safe and comfortable environment for personal exploration. Admittance by Application Only While visitors may purchase Snctm Jewelry and other select accoutrements in our Boutique, Membership and soirée options are available only to approved applicants. To gain entry into Snctm, one must apply. An Aurum-level annual membership, at minimum, is required for any single gentleman to attend a Snctm event. Approved non-member couples who have never attended will have the opportunity to join us for Dîner, or to purchase the first-time entry Virgineum Couple’s Ticket. This is a way…
  • New York > Manhattan Borough
  • SCONY was started by Ms. Margaret Davis has been New York’s only exclusively OTK spanking group since 1997. We place a high priority on privacy, respect, and healthy play and provide a safe environment that is especially inviting to novices who are just emerging in the spanking scene. We do this by putting safeguards in place that protect the quality of our membership and visitors. The SCONY Style SCONY promotes an approach to spanking that can be summed at as OPTILAP: Old-fashioned, Platonic, Traditional, Institutional, Loving And Parental discipline. As such, we do not promote age play or role play but a choice to be held accountable for behavior. OPTILAP discipline doesn’t have to hurt, but it should, in some…
  • New York > New York City
  • Welcome to The Eulenspiegel Society (TES), a non-for-profit BDSM/Leather/Fetish group dedicated to the social interaction, educational exchange, and ever-changing diversity of our community. TES organizes regular classes, workshops and events in the NY tri-state area. We host 2 educational meetings every week, and occasional weekend workshops, totaling nearly 100 classes per year. These classes include lectures, demos, panels, and hands-on workshops offered by a diverse range of presenters. As a not-for-profit, part of TES’s mission is to provide kink education in a welcoming, judgment-free, and confidential environment. During the COVID-19 pandemic we have endeavored to bring online programming to the wider BDSM community free of charge, and we are grateful that we’ve been able to continue providing space for kinksters near and…
  • Queens > Long Island
  • The Long Island Ravens M.C. is an brotherhood of men… who are proud to make the leather lifestyle an important part of their lives, who would like to further and strengthen the image of leather on Long Island, where leathermen can offer friendship and positive support to others like themselves. The club recognizes that this brotherhood consists of individuals who are able to maintain their individuality, personality and behavior patterns. We believe in the self worth of an individual and offer to our membership an extended family. Welcome! We do our best to support the tradition of hospitality and reciprocated trust to other men in our leather tribe. We recognize the special bonds in our brother leather clubs, and always…
  • United States of America (USA) > New York (NY)
  • A best place to start and continue your insanely active and at the same time safe alternative sexual life. It’s a way better to start it online and prepare for meetings in real life than do it at the bar or at the night club. Even BDSM dungeons and fetish conventions can be a great discouragement if you visit them without preparation. BTW most dungeons and local misstresses have their pages at the place we talk about.

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