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  • Central America > United States of America (USA)
  • Facebook and Instagram of alternative sex. There is no place for many popular and successful social networks because if you use one or two – you will not use others, because you don’t have time and because you can already find all people at networks you use. So at the place which we will discover to you, you will find the most of various perverts in your location and in locations you plan to visit. That place is in the top 3000 most visited websites of the world and has the biggest user base among fetish and BDSM people
  • Central America > United States of America (USA)
  • Number 1 non-vanilla dating app for BDSM/fetish sex - the Tinder+Bumble+OkCupid+Badoo, all in the same place, but full of naked photos of bodies, dicks and vaginas of members who want only one thing: no string attached perverted sex with you!
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  • Colorado (CO) > Denver city
  • The art of rope bondage has long been one of the more obscure and the most beautiful forms of kink. Those who love rope bondage love it a great deal. Those who don’t do rope bondage, usually appreciate the art but have a hard time comprehending it and/or don’t want to take the time to learn it. , etc., please go to the Denver Bound Website under construction. YES!!! Denver Bound started classes up. We started Denver Bound classes up In our own home studio. Classes are small but I could hear the laughing from the students and this all was music to my ears as well as others. The nice thing is the students that were in class when…
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  • Colorado (CO) > Denver city
  • Denver munch is a group that organizes meetings every second Friday of the month for the purpose of getting to know one another and spending a good time. All who are interested in learning more about the BDSM community are welcome.
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  • Colorado (CO) > Denver city
  • The Denver Sanctuary is a PRIVATE MEMBERSHIP Social Club for folks who practice or are interested in the BDSM Lifestyle. COVID-19 has put quite a crimp in the way the club runs. PRIOR to COVID-19 we offered play parties as well as a variety of meetings, discussion groups, classes and social events. The club is continually changing to try to best meet the needs of the folks looking for kinky education, play and social opportunities. Please check the calendar, link at the top of the page (blue), for updated information. If you click the title of the event another window will open with all the information about the event. To attend any play party event you need to be a…
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  • Colorado (CO) > Denver city
  • Bondage. Demos. Pop culture references. Tuesday nights are great for kink! Join the TNG crowd (The Next Generation – ages 19- 35) for the monthly, mid-week play parties at The Denver Sanctuary. If you’re new to the community, these parties are a relaxed and fun social-and-play event. Meet kinksters like you, and learn about different kinks and fetishes through the demos and presentations offered throughout the night. Rules: Please don’t be a tool or a troll. Personal ads will be deleted and you will be permabanned. “Shadow-posting” – Leaving the group after making a post to avoid accountability is not tolerated and will result in being kicked or banned from the group at the mods discretion. Suspected sock puppet accounts…
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  • Colorado (CO) > Denver city
  • Any aspect of BDSM is of interest to us. All of the BDSM community in Denver and other areas of Colorado are free to join!
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  • Colorado (CO) > Thornton city
  • A private membership group for all those interested in BDSM. We create an environment where all can explore their fantasies as well as learn new things about the lifestyle. The ultimate beauty of rope lies in the aesthetic fulfillment of both the sadistic and masochistic desires. Since 1998 Denver Bound has stayed true to the sadomasochistic roots of rope bondage within a culture of eroticism and trust. Facilitating connection between partners is central to Denver Bound’s philosophy. We believe that the deeply erotic component of a scene is possible only with an established foundation of consent and communication. Beginning with basic ties, Denver Bound progressively builds on mastered skills to incorporate increasingly complex and intense ties. In addition to developing…
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  • Arizona (AZ) > Tucson city
  • Desert Dominion is a Southern Arizona alternative lifestyle organization based in Tucson and welcomes everyone regardless of orientation, age (18+), kink (legal activities involving consenting adults), race, creed, religion, etc. We would like to invite those who are in alternative lifestyles, new to the scene, or just curious about alternative lifestyles to come to our events, meet us, socialize with us, and learn with us. We exist to support, educate, and socialize with one another in a safe and consensual space. Our members possess a variety of years of experience, of education in related lifestyle activities, and have widely diverse interests. We have a number of monthly events including educational seminars, hands on training groups, socials, munches, discussion groups, etc……
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  • Los Angeles > Carson City
  • An organization that promotes many different expressions of power in love and play. The group offers education, support and more to people with an interest in alternative lifestyles
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  • Riverside > Palm Springs
  • This is the FetLife meeting space for DESIRE Leather. DESIRE is the annual all-women/GQ/Gender Variant/Trans event held in Palm Springs, California. This group is not only a place to ask questions and get information, but a place to connect with other attendees. (No Cis or Trans Men) Rules: Be nice or you’ll be asked to leave. If you want to post something about another event, please check in with [email protected] before doing so. Thank you! If you are posting information about another women’s or GQ event or happening, please simply come in and say hello, because that’s nice, post a SHORT blurb and a link. Please do not post more than a paragraph because we can read the info on the link you will leave…
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  • Michigan (MI) > Detroit city
  • The Dbc is a play club for GAY men who share a passionate interest in bondage, SM, leather and rubber. We have members at all experience levels. Some are new the the lifestyle while others have years free fuck tonight of experience. Each member brings new skills or insights to be shared with the club. The Dbc promotes safe, sane and consensual bondage and other SM activities. What dies Dbc do? Lots of bondage – rope, chain, leather restraints, manacles, leg irons, or whatever handy items our members can pervert to restrain an individual. SM activities like whipping, flogging and humiliation also take place. The Dbc periodically hosts private play parties for members and guests. We provide the dungeon location and major equipment. We have…
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  • Michigan (MI) > Detroit city
  • A BDSM group that welcomes all with a serious genuine interest to join. Come share with others in lifestyle and add flavor to your life!
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  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • For anyone who likes to just relax in a comfy squishy diaper. Age playing welcome, Adult Babies welcome, Mommies and Daddies welcome, and especially Diaper Lovers welcome:)  
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  • Arkansas (AR) > Little Rock city
  • Welcome to Different Loving of Little Rock. We are a BDSM group that meets twice every month. We also have a web forum for our members where we discuss different aspects of the lifestyle. Come enjoy the company of other like minds and also get a chance to play!
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  • Texas (TX) > Dallas city
  • Discipline Corps is a Men’s BDSM Social Group in Dallas, Texas, whose membership is limited to male-identified individuals who wish to experience SAFE, SANE, and CONSENSUAL BDSM play with other men. Our members are interested in many forms of play, including spanking, bondage, mummification, rough body play, tactile play, medical play, and many other forms of kink. Our Mission With a strong emphasis on safe, sane and consensual play, we host activities geared for all levels of players, from novice to highly experienced, and we encourage sharing, mentoring and learning between men of various experience levels. Our History Founded in 1999, we celebrate our 21st year with almost 100 active membersand several of our founding members still active. Discipline Corps…
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  • Arkansas (AR) > Conway
  • A semi-private list mainly for discussions. A nice place to socialize with other lifestylers. We host get-togethers and special parties for our members.
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  • Colorado (CO) > Denver city
  • A discussion group that meets every Thursday afternoon. Come early as space is limited. An open discussion for all to share skills, ideas and experiences!
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  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • We are happy to be celebrating close to a decade of existence. America’s Premier Professional and Lifestyle Domination Convention is a society that brings tether those into BSDM , leather and fetish to share our interests and celebrate our diversity! We hold parties, educative workshops, discussion panels and seminars!
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  • Los Angeles > Arcadia City
  • An active Community group in Southern California. We have discussions on various aspects of interest to those in lifestyle. We also host seminars, parties and various special events!
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  • New York > New York City
  • A bit about us: We are a Friendly NYC BDSM Society with weekly educational demos, presentations, workshops, munches, and terrific parties. We’ve been around since Nov 5th, 1999. We’re open to everyone regardless of age, kink desire, age, color, gender, kink and sexual orientation. DomSubFriends is dedicated to creating a positive kindred spirit environment for kinky, open minded people in and around the NYC area; all in a politically free friendly environment. Now for some rules and criteria for this forum: Even Postings are welcomed. We also encourage all topics. That said, DSF is an organization. We try to run a tight ship. The only topics which will be deleted are as follows: Please do not post hate, issues or…
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  • Contra Costa > Antioch City
  • DomSubs_slaves is a group that was formed to cater to masters, subs, switches and slaves alike. The group’s main goal is to meet for discussions, munches and gatherings throughout California.
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  • New York > New York City
  • •All contain the obvious, such as floggers, whips, crops, leather and wooden paddles, rattan and fiberglass canes, wrist and ankle shackles in leather and steel, spreader bars, weights, blindfolds and gags, cbt devices, nipples clamps of varying intensity, leather hoods, violet wand, chastity devices, hemostats, leather restraints, including arm binders and straitjackets. •A wardrobe for cross-dressers is available: wigs, shoes, lingerie, stockings, maid uniforms, outerwear and, of course, a large selection of cosmetics. •Our dungeon furniture includes bondage tables, spanking horses, a vertical bondage rack, a vintage dental chair, thrones, two 10′ horizontal stretching racks with overhead pulleys (perfect for cbt!), two large cages (suitable for long periods of confinement), spanking benches and horses, and an OBGYN table. •4 of…
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  • South Dakota (SD) > Sioux Falls city
  • Dragon’s Tail ALC is dedicated to creating a safe place to learn, to support fellow community members, and for facilitating safe activities within the community. We are an outlet for expressing and believing in oneself in a judgement-free zone. Who is Dragon’s Tail? Dragon’s Tail Alternative Lifestyle Community is a private membership social club for those who choose an alternative lifestyle. It was founded in 2019 with the purpose of providing a safe community for alternative lifestylers in the Sioux Falls and surrounding area. We provide education, support, and social events to bring together and enhance the kink/fetish, BDSM, psychodrama for the healing arts, and other alternative lifestyle communities. We have a clean and secure location in Sioux Falls, South Dakota,…
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  • Minnesota (MN) > Minneapolis city
  • A group that is dedicated to exploring the D/s dynamic. Bi-monthly meetings in a private home. The meetings are open only to those who have attended a kitten munch
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  • Central America > United States of America (USA)
  • Maine, New Hampshire, Vermont, Massachusetts, Rhode Island, Connecticut, New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Ohio, Delaware, Maryland, Virginia, West Virginia, North Carolina, South Carolina, Georgia, Florida, District of Columbia, Alabama, Louisiana, Mississippi, Kentucky, Tennessee, Indiana, Michigan, Illinois, Arkansas, Puerto Rico, Greenland, New Foundland, Nova Scotia, Quebec, Labrador, New Brunswick, Ontario, Toronto, Montreal, Ottawa, St Johns, Washington D.C. IS NOT STRICT. Please have some kind of picture as an avatar. NO Ads for Parties or Clubs or kik This club was created to give cuckolds and Hotwives a broader range, with specific areas of interest, for better connection and communication. This club includes all types of cuckolds, cucks, cuckoldresses, hot wife, slut wife, cuckqueans, Hotwives, Slutwives, Cuckoldresses, studs, bulls, and any others.…
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  • Massachusetts (MA) > Northampton
  • A social and educational BDSM group based in Northampton. Come learn and explore your limits in the company of like minded people. Meet new friends and potential partners!
  • Central America > United States of America (USA)
  • A best place to start and continue your insanely active and at the same time safe alternative sexual life. It’s a way better to start it online and prepare for meetings in real life than do it at the bar or at the night club. Even BDSM dungeons and fetish conventions can be a great discouragement if you visit them without preparation. BTW most dungeons and local misstresses have their pages at the place we talk about.

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