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  • Central America > United States of America (USA)
  • Facebook and Instagram of alternative sex. There is no place for many popular and successful social networks because if you use one or two – you will not use others, because you don’t have time and because you can already find all people at networks you use. So at the place which we will discover to you, you will find the most of various perverts in your location and in locations you plan to visit. That place is in the top 3000 most visited websites of the world and has the biggest user base among fetish and BDSM people
  • Central America > United States of America (USA)
  • Number 1 non-vanilla dating app for BDSM/fetish sex - the Tinder+Bumble+OkCupid+Badoo, all in the same place, but full of naked photos of bodies, dicks and vaginas of members who want only one thing: no string attached perverted sex with you!
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  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • Curvy women in Los Angeles area .. A bit of everything ..events ..munches ..fetishes Rules: please do bash or hate because of size, you know how our kind loves a fight. Post events in your area and surrounding areas, but only if they’re not too goofy. Even goofy in an ironic way. Yeah. No. For example: World’s ultimate no-limit Uno tournament. World’s ultimate no-limit Uno tournament to the death. No personal adds Introduce yourself please, but don’t be so obtuse ya know? Don’t just say you have an interesting personality, fuckin show it. No platitudes. If everyone agrees with something you’re posting, it’s a worthless post. Please title your threads properly. If you can’t manage that, I’ll fix them for…
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  • Delaware (DE) > Dover #
  • D/s Delaware is a Delaware based group that educates and enhances the well being of those in BDSM lifestyle. Monthly munches held on the last Wednesday of the month.
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  • Colorado (CO) > Denver city
  • Our main goal is to further educate those who have already attended gateway or wish to do so as their intro to BDSM,fetish and kink community. Very helpful for those new into the scene.
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  • United States of America (USA) > Minnesota (MN)
  • D/s MN is a group dedicated to the exploration of the D/s dynamic in power exchange relationships, but we are accepting of all kinks. We have a Yahoo Group List, and we meet twice monthly in real time on the 2nd Sunday and the 4th Thursday for open discussions on D/’s subjects. Lady Carol (BladeDomme), Tianna (CrushedVelvet), Cadee (cadee), Tussa (tussa), Josh (the_mann), Jim (firesparky), Brian(bethanysubgurl) and Heather (DoubleH) act as moderators. While we support you in your search for whatever you are looking for, we are not a hook-up group. We have a sticky post for those type of postings.  
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  • Florida (FL) > Tampa city
  • NO PERSONAL ADS outside of the sticky thread. PERIOD. This is NOT a dating list. No solicitaion ads for professional Dom/me services, either. This is a place for lifestylers in the Tampa area to come together and talk about all kinds of topics. What is on your mind? What questions do you have? What conversations lay in your brain? We want to hear from you! EVENTS: You may post local/virtual lifestyle events like classes, group outings, munches, rope events, lifestyle socials, leather nights, play parties, conventions, demos, etc, that are suitable for the general (18+) public. DO NOT post gangbangs or other sex-centric events, where sexual activity is the primary feature of the event, because there are plenty of other…
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  • Iowa (IA) > Des Moines city
  • A group with an aim of promoting knowledge and ethical values in the local BDSM community. The group also has a goal of gathering alternative lifestyle individuals to socialize and share skills and ideas
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  • Texas (TX) > Dallas city
  • My name is Wayne Davis and I am proud to be the President Dallas Bears. The Dallas Bears are a 501(c)(3) charitable non-profit and social organization for the Bear Community, their Admirers, and Allies. We are on a mission of community service, fellowship, fun and lasting friendships. Check out our website to find out details about us, our events, fund-raisers, and social activities. We would welcome you to join us at any of the events and at our monthly membership meetings. If you are looking for a place to connect, serve and share; then the Dallas Bears just might be the place for you. We look forward to meeting you! ​ Community Service, Fellowship, Fun & Lasting Friendships. ​
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  • Texas (TX) > Dallas city
  • Dallas area kinksters. Rules: Please… be respectful, and no trolling. Keep the general cuntyness and assholery to a minimum and no ads for sex/hookups/or similar. (There are plenty of other groups available for all that)
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  • Texas (TX) > Dallas city
  • Kinky and Poly? Thinking about being Poly? Want to know more about Poly and ethical non-monogamy? Come on in! The water is fine and we have duct tape!  
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  • Texas (TX) > Dallas city
  • This is not a personals list, it’s not a kinky craigslist, nor is it your personal watering hole where you come to find your preferred gender and orientation of whomever you are looking for at that time. There are lots, and LOTS of personals groups on here just for that express purpose and this group is not on that list. No, I’m not going to list them for you, but you can take the other hand out of your pants and look for it on your own, might want to wash it before you do that, too. No financial domination posts here. There are groups for that as well. NO PYRAMID SCHEMES OR SIMILAR BUSINESS MODELS. Why am I exerting…
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  • Connecticut (CT) > Danbury city
  • This group is for those in the Danbury CT area that in in the lifestyle no matter what form. Rules: Any posters who seem to be trolling or who appear to be selling something will be deleted. I’ll also delete any posters who seem to be scammers.
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  • Alabama (AL) > Anniston
  • Dare is located at an equal distance from Anniston, Montgomery and Birmingham. We aim at enhancing the lifestyle experience in a calm sane environment. Welcome.
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  • New Hampshire (NH) > Keene
  • Dominance And Related Kink in Small Towns Of New England is a unique New Hampshire based BDSM group. Contact us for more details
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  • Ohio (OH) > Dayton city
  • BDSM Fun shouldn’t be an hour and a half away. We live, breathe, work, and play in Dayton. Columbus is the bigger city with a larger BDSM community, but wouldn’t it be nice to meet other Kinksters right here in our own backyard? Let’s plan meetups, and carpooling to Columbus events, hell we may even plan our own kink parties.  
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  • Washington DC (DC) > Washington #
  • This is a group for those in and around the Washington DC/Metro area. Feel free to discuss most anything related to the DC scene regarding events, happenings, and questions related to local scene activities! Thanks and enjoy! Rules: No personal ads, please! Save your personal ads for any one of the bevy of FetLife groups for personals. No ads for professional services of any kind! Save those for the classifieds groups or better yet buy an ad on Fetlife! If you host or promote events that have gender specific pricing tiers (i.e. you charge men a higher entry fee than women) do not post your event here. We do not support this practice. Feel free to post ads for local…
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  • United States of America (USA) > Washington DC (DC)
  • Founded by Greeneyedevil and asianbella, DC Rope is a group that focuses on rope education. A very friendly crowd of rope lovers based in the DC, USA area who have a passion for sharing their rope knowledge and making all members feel welcome! Everyone is more than welcome at DC Rope. Make your annual visit, stop by if you’re in town every now and again, and definitely come and introduce yourself if you’re new to the DC area! Of course we can’t forget our cherished monthly members. 🙂 Rules: his Group will only discuss topics related to the Rope scene. Personals/Partner Search goes in here >>> “Looking for…” please use those respectively. Please Do Not join DC Rope if you Do Not…
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  • Washington DC (DC) > Washington #
  • Mission Statement: The District of Columbia Bear Club (DCBC) was created to promote fellowship among bears, cubs, levi/leather and other diverse members of the District of Columbia Gay/Lesbian Community. In addition, we seek to promote better inter-club relations with local, regional, national and international bear, levi/leather communities and to encourage a positive public image in the larger global community. On the evening of Thursday, January 5th, 1995, at the home of Jack Bell and John Delozier in NE Washington DC, an impromptu meeting started a rapid chain of events that gave birth to the only Levi/Leather Bear Club in the country. There were 10 Founding Members in attendance that night: Jack B, John D, Mike B, Chuck S, Bob N,…
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  • Massachusetts (MA) > Boston city
  • Defenders Boston is a Catholic leather society that aims at promoting sane, safe and consensual practice of BDSM.
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  • United States of America (USA) > Delaware (DE)
  • This group is for all in the BDSM community of Delaware and the surrounding areas around the Delmarva peninsula. All levels of experience are welcome, even just the curious. This group is available for us to meet like minded individuals, to discuss, to learn and to give experienced members the chance to teach/exchange ideas. Please feel free to post announcements of LOCAL events here. There are plenty of other geographically oriented groups out there, so please use those to promote events not in Delaware. Announcements of events outside the immediate area will be deleted and repeat abusers will be banned. Please use available thread I made for all personal ads, all others will be deleted.  
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  • Texas (TX) > Denton city
  • Welcome to the island of misfit kinsters A group for kinksters in and around Denton, Texas. This group is here to help facilitate good kinky fun, education and growth. It is a place to ask questions, share successes and failures, make new friends, meet with old friends and have fun. Feel free to post within guidelines of Fetlife, get cozy and have fun! Rules: No bashing/outing or other general juvenile behavior. All posts that follow the FETLIFE Terms Of Use are accepted. This group is a place to post your thoughts and ideas on kink including but not limited to: Post about local events What you are looking for Ask questions on different topics both vanilla and kinky Keeping track…
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  • Colorado (CO) > Denver city
  • Anyone interested in threesomes and foursomes? Any combo can be fun! 🙂 You can find singles, couples or those already in a relationship who may want to share their personal experiences or are simply looking for someone(s). Personals are encouraged. Remember to add your location, type of play, and sexual orientation. Do not make references to illegal drug use in your ads, please. These will be deleted. Ads with phone numbers attached will have the phone number redacted. Replies will be deleted since mods cannot edit replies.  
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  • Colorado (CO) > Denver city
  • For those who LOVE Everything to do with Blowjobs to connect with in Denver or Colorado Rules: All FetLife Community Guidelines will be respected and followed. So READ THEM. Be nice play fair have fun share  
  • Central America > United States of America (USA)
  • A best place to start and continue your insanely active and at the same time safe alternative sexual life. It’s a way better to start it online and prepare for meetings in real life than do it at the bar or at the night club. Even BDSM dungeons and fetish conventions can be a great discouragement if you visit them without preparation. BTW most dungeons and local misstresses have their pages at the place we talk about.

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