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California (CA) Fetish Clubs & BDSM Clubs


  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Facebook and Instagram of alternative sex. There is no place for many popular and successful social networks because if you use one or two – you will not use others, because you don’t have time and because you can already find all people at networks you use. So at the place which we will discover to you, you will find the most of various perverts in your location and in locations you plan to visit. That place is in the top 3000 most visited websites of the world and has the biggest user base among fetish and BDSM people
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Number 1 non-vanilla dating app for BDSM/fetish sex - the Tinder+Bumble+OkCupid+Badoo, all in the same place, but full of naked photos of bodies, dicks and vaginas of members who want only one thing: no string attached perverted sex with you!
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  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • BDSM_SOCal is a group to help folks find those fun & kinky BDSM events and people. NO PERSONAL ADS ALLOWED It is NOT a group for discussions – please feel free to post those burning questions & personal ads in other more appropriate groups. Rules: BDSM_SOCal is a group for posting BDSM-related events located in the greater Southern California area – covering Los Angeles, Orange, San Bernardino, Riverside, and San Diego Counties. It is NOT a group for discussions – please feel free to post those burning questions & personal ads in other more appropriate groups. Let’s be REAL CLEAR HERE: NO PERSONAL ADS ALLOWED Postings that are not event-related may be summarily deleted with no notice or warning. If I’m feeling…
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  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • For more than 15 years now, Bears has been providing an outlet for the LA Bear community. We have various fun events for our members including Mr. Los Angeles Social bear and Mr. LA Leather Bear. Bears LA is mainly a public charity.
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  • San Diego > San Diego City
  • Bears San Diego is a club for bears and bear fanciers. We are based in San Diego, California but we have members throughout the United States and even a few from overseas. Bears San Diego was established in San Diego in October 1994 when a need was recognized for a group who did not fit in with the mainstream gays. Within the first year, the club grew to 100 members. In 2003 Bears San Diego took the next step and began our journey to become a Non-Profit 501(c)(3) charitable organization. We finalized the process in the summer of 2006 when Bears San Diego got it’s final approval from the Internal Revenue Service to do business as a Non-Profit Organization. Bears…
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  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • California Central Valley Leather Alliance is an educational group in the Sacramento area. We are a community active group that believes in education, historic values and current events around the Leather/BDSM lifestyle. Rules: Please ask the owner of the group before posting your events. Thank you.
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  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Anyone interested in adult breastfeeding and lactation in California is welcome. Yes, you can be from outside of California, but we are trying to give a sense of community for the area…. There are numerous groups dedicated to other areas. Rules: Aggressive personal attacks, criminal accusations, making fun of, trolling, flaming, bullying, racial slurs or any other type of malicious behavior is cause for banishment! Men posting hook up ads will be banned for life.
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  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • This group is a place for women (and others) in California who love bisexual men to find them. It is a sexual group. Whether or not it has anything to do with BDSM is up to the individuals who choose to meet. and what they negotiate. IF you know of a California woman (or others) on FetLife that likes Bi men, send them this way. Lets try to get this group to grow. Like bisexual women, bi men have more sexual opportunities then straight men. When 2 bi men get together and a woman is involved, even if all she wants to do is watch, watch and masturbate, direct, etc., it can make the sex for the men that much…
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  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • A group for breeders and those who desire to be bred in California ONLY please! Personal Ads Encouraged! Rules: Please be nice to others… If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all! No hate mail, spam, or other unnecessary posts! If you do it, you will be banned. For events, check with the group owner first before posting. Please no games like ‘breed or pass’… this is a place to find a breeding mate in the greatest state around 😉
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  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • So what do you do when who you are doesn’t fit into one box or group here on Fetlife? For me I find myself torn between way too many sub-groups and I wish someone might form a group where I might find other souls who have as wide a breadth of interests or are open to authentic exploration in many areas and just generally geek-ing out on new experiences. So after taking to heart this year that it’s my job to create the life, activities and tribe I want (just as it is for Your Life), I’ve decided to start a new group here that includes a ton-o-fabulous-geeky-pervy-stuff! There’s no cute, short & pithy title to encompass what I am and how I want to…
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  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • This is a group for California cuckolds to meet women, cuckolds, and bulls that are like minded and local. There are plenty of cuckold groups but how many are just for California? 🙂 Rules: Permanent California residents only. If you’re “in town for the week” you’re not welcome here. No exchange of money of any kind. Findommes are not welcome here Be civil. Don’t attack others Cucks and bulls put their personals in the appropriate thread. Disregard for the rules is grounds for an immediate, permanent ban. You’re an adult. Nobody is going to hold your hand while you cross the street anymore. Lazy, stupid losers get banned.
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • A best place to start and continue your insanely active and at the same time safe alternative sexual life. It’s a way better to start it online and prepare for meetings in real life than do it at the bar or at the night club. Even BDSM dungeons and fetish conventions can be a great discouragement if you visit them without preparation. BTW most dungeons and local misstresses have their pages at the place we talk about.

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