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  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Facebook and Instagram of alternative sex. There is no place for many popular and successful social networks because if you use one or two – you will not use others, because you don’t have time and because you can already find all people at networks you use. So at the place which we will discover to you, you will find the most of various perverts in your location and in locations you plan to visit. That place is in the top 3000 most visited websites of the world and has the biggest user base among fetish and BDSM people
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Number 1 non-vanilla dating app for BDSM/fetish sex - the Tinder+Bumble+OkCupid+Badoo, all in the same place, but full of naked photos of bodies, dicks and vaginas of members who want only one thing: no string attached perverted sex with you!
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  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • A club with more than 6700 square feet. Only Lair De Sade has a basement, multiple buildings, a kitchen, three restrooms and loads of amenities for you enjoyment and comfort.The outside portions are enclosed for socializing and smoking. Real luxury for the real lifestyler!!
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  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • A club with more than 6700 square feet. Only Lair De Sade has a basement, multiple buildings, a kitchen, three restrooms and loads of amenities for you enjoyment and comfort.The outside portions are enclosed for socializing and smoking. Real luxury for the real lifestyler!!
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  • Los Angeles > Lakewood City
  • We are an adult group seeking to meet others into lifestyle at our munch and share aspects of mutual interest. Strictly adults only!
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  • Los Angeles > West Hollywood
  • Until we have a chance to meet in person, here’s a little intro: We are an Order of 21st Century Nuns dedicated to the promulgation of universal joy and the expiation of stigmatic guilt. Our ministry is one of public manifestation and habitual perpetration. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uNrP0-qZ0Gk More simply put: we make people happy, stamp out guilt brought on by a judgmental society and help various organizations and charities, etc …. Our goal is to embrace our gay and diverse selves and each other as we are today, as we were born and as we are meant to be. Our goal is to share kindness, love and laughter with those we have met, those we meet today and those we will meet…
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  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • MAXIMUS organizes quarterly socials and periodic smokers for Real Men and butch boys — not the nelly or faint of heart — who know, crave and indulge in the macho appeal and libido-stoking lure of cigar-smoking, pipe-smoking, and the he-man camaraderie and male bonding they stir up. Where there’s smoke, there’s fire — and you’ll find both at MAXIMUS gatherings. If you’re looking for the tobacco-fumed company of like-minded, red-blooded men who share your cigar and pipe fetishes big time, you’ve come to right place. Take some time to explore our website to learn more about MAXIMUS, eyeball our gallery of poster studs, keep up-to-date with our calendar of events, and find out about the venues that host our evening and…
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  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • Welcome to Moonburn, the ultimate venue for the coolest gay events in LA. Come to our events including the famous Men’s spanking party and more.
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  • San Francisco > San Francisco City
  • Nightshade Sanctuary is a healing arts studio located in San Francisco, California. It is a space of intersectionality designed to support sex workers and artists alike by providing a safe and clean environment to work and create out of. Elegantly decorated to accommodate a variety of modalities, this sanctuary can transform to be what you wish it to be. Used primarily as a rental space for kinky explorations and artistic endeavors, it also offers classes and events that diversify and provide education in the realms of BDSM and other consensual practices. Ethically run and intentionally adaptable, Nightshade is committed to accessibility in order to support individuals and the community at large. Sex work is work and life should be full…
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  • Orange > Garden Grove
  • OCLA (0range Coast Leather Assembly) caters to the leather fetish and S/M community. OCLA is an outreach and education organization in Long Beach, Orange County, Greater LA and South Bay. OCLA bring together responsible adults and help them to share an interest in the safe practices of leather Fetish and BDSM play. The group is non membership and is open to people of both genders.
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  • San Francisco > San Francisco City
  • Power exchange is an erotic play space for adults only. We have branches in both Las Vegas and San Francisco.We provide a safe environment for those interested in engaging in sexual activity. All guests should be above the age of 18. Contact us for more details.
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  • San Francisco > San Francisco City
  • Powerhouse is the largest club for the upscale gym boys, leathermen , bears among others. Come fulfill your fantasies in this upbeat club. The place has a house Dj, pinball amchines, pool tables and so much more for your enjoyment!
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  • Riverside > Palm Springs
  • Our main goal is to provide you with a safe environment where all lifestylers can come and be with each other for growth and support. All of the leather,fetish or SM are welcome.
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  • Sacramento > Sacramento City
  • The famous Sacramento spanking fetishists zone. Come to this amazing place in Nothern California and have the time of your life with like minded elegant people. Share ideas and stories involving the spanking fetish!
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  • Santa Barbara > Santa Barbara City
  • Our group’s main goal is to promote edge culture interests like pagan occult, BDSM fetish and more. We extend our services to those in Santa Barbara, San Luis Obispo county and southern California.
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  • San Francisco > San Francisco City
  • This is a group for event listing, personal ads and discussions related to female identified Tops and their admiring subs and switches. This is a place for lifestyle Dommes/Tops only. Please refrain from posting pro domme related ads/events here. If you wish to list a personal ad please list it in the Sticky section and follow the guidelines and format for listing personal ads. Please be respectful this is not a place for looking for Hookups, there are other groups for that.
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  • San Francisco > San Francisco City
  • SF Citadel is Closed until Covid-19 is over The SF CITADEL’s mission is to provide a safe space for alternative lifestyles, cultural and leather events We also provide other resources to individuals, associations and communities who identify with having different ways of expressing their proclivities. We want to create a safe place to meet, explore and share enjoyment, happiness, laughter and pleasure within these communities locally and nationally. We are open to all human players. We warmly welcome everyone regardless of race, creed, color, sexual orientation or gender identification. This is a place for all individuals to gather with other like-minded individuals to explore alternative aspect of their identities. We strive to provide a safe space and will continue to…
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  • San Francisco > San Francisco City
  • A club catering for those into spanking, sexual pain, bondage etc. The club is a great place to meet like minded people and have plenty of fun together!
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  • Santa Clara > San Jose City
  • We pride in being the greatest leather/ BDSM scene. We provide the best opportunities for you to explore your fantasies and meet other listylers through our parties, discussion forums, social gatherings and more. Join us now and improve your lifestyle!
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  • Santa Clara > San Jose City
  • smOdyssey is an education focused membership group located in San Jose, Santa Clara County, California, in the heart of Silicon Valley. Whether this is your first foray into sensation or role play or you are a highly-skilled veteran of the leather/BDSM scene, smOdyssey is here for you. By way of classes, workshops, social gatherings, discussion groups, on-line forums, and community outreach events, smOdyssey provides you with many opportunities to share your experience, enthusiasm and enjoyment with peers in the southern San Francisco Bay area and beyond. About smOdyssey Mission Statement smOdyssey, Inc. is a southern San Francisco Bay Area organization focused on the education, exploration, and advancement of BDSM knowledge, practice, and skill. smOdyssey is an inclusive pansexual organization; our community…
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  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • The online home for the South Bay Bears of Silicon Valley. A social organization serving the care and feeding of two legged bears in Santa Clara County and beyond. Information about our history, mission and events can be found here. Have a look around, we’re a friendly group. We hope to see you in person sometime soon. Many of the members we looking for other Bears and Bear events in the South  Bay. The group was founded on April 15, 1996 after a meeting to determine  the interest level for forming another group in the South SF Bay area. The  founders hoped for a dozen bears/friends at this first meeting but only expected  5 or 6. They were quite surprised…
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  • San Francisco > San Francisco City
  • We Are… A social and sexual fraternity for men who engage in BDSM. The longest-standing gay male BDSM Association in the western USA. Active in the San Francisco BDSM community with play parties, an annual run (Boot Camp), social events and charitable fund raising. Premier BDSM Players who mentor by example. Safe, Sane and Consensual. A volunteer Association with over 190 members, coordinated by a Fraternal Committee. Open to members and invited guests with a government-issued ID verifying you are 18 years of age or older. Safe S/M This information was partly taken from”SM Sex Safely” produced by the Stop AIDS Project with the help of Trevor Jacques, Peter Fiske, Philip Turner, Karen Kircher, Jed Herman and others. Please feel…
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  • San Francisco > San Francisco City
  • The Bears of San Francisco is an all-inclusive community-based association that benefits the greater Bay Area through fundraising, service, and socializing. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VqL53oJ2sbo&feature=emb_imp_woyt    
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  • Santa Clara > San Jose City
  • The Brotherhood is a group of gay men who live in the Leather lifestyle. The group was started for social, play, and other activities. We are a group that fosters fellowship with Gay Men, by Gay Men and for Gay Men. We support the ideals of “Better Together”, but also realize that there is a need for such a Brotherhood that encourages the Leather Men’s lifestyle. The Brotherhood encourages Safe, Sane, and Consensual Play, but recognizes that everyone has varying definitions of play. Our Brotherhood endeavors to bring together Leather Men for public events such as BBQ’s, Potlucks, Motor Cycle Runs, Bar events, and more. The Brotherhood is also a networking entity that encourages its memberships to hold private events…
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  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • Due to the ongoing Covid-19 pandemic, we are not yet ready to re-open for regular business. The good news is that we are now able to once again offer room rentals! Rentals are now available for BDSM professionals as well as for private, personal use. Some of the Dominas, Switches and Submissives you know and love from The Dominion are also now renting rooms as independent contractors in order to offer you privately arranged sessions.   The Dominion is one of the most beautiful and well-appointed dungeons in the world. We provide beautiful scene rooms with state of the art BDSM equipment and a safe, clean environment. Our dungeon features 9 themed rooms elegantly stocked with specialized furniture and toys…
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  • Alameda > Oakland City
  • The gates, a privately run bdsm group, is located in a home in a private and discreet residential neighborhood. All people are allowed enough time to meet and have fun. Contact us for more details.
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  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • The Humboldt BDSM Connection… Humboldt County’s BDSM community resource. A new and growing organization focusing on the unique needs of Kinksters living behind the redwood curtain. HBDSMC welcomes individuals of all levels of experience to join us in our efforts to create a community of bdsm folk in Humboldt county. HBDSMC is a community resource center, a social meeting place, and an educational information source. We will strive to create an open communication between our community and the greater bdsm community as a whole, and to serve as an active gateway to the information and educational resources needed by those individuals interested in exploring the BDSM lifestyle. Our Email List Specifically for Humboldt county residents who enjoy BDSM. This e-mail…
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • A best place to start and continue your insanely active and at the same time safe alternative sexual life. It’s a way better to start it online and prepare for meetings in real life than do it at the bar or at the night club. Even BDSM dungeons and fetish conventions can be a great discouragement if you visit them without preparation. BTW most dungeons and local misstresses have their pages at the place we talk about.

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