Oklahoma City: The Next Generation Fetlife group Fetish & BDSM Club

Address: Oklahoma City, OK, USA
Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/groups/8960

This is a group for the next generation of kinksters in Oklahoma City! The target age is 18-35, however, you won’t be turned away simply for your age. We just don’t want this to turn into a forum where older members try and find themselves a younger partner. This group is a place for the younger members of the kinky OKC community to come and mingle, get to know one another, learn about BDSM and the lifestyle, set up munches, ask about the OKC community, make friends, and just have some good conversations. Hopefully we’ll all make some good friendships here!


  1. Naming names or disclosing any other personal information to anyone outside of our community is strictly forbidden. Privacy is a major concern for many people involved in the bdsm community. Being publicly labeled as a sexual deviant would have negative consequences for many of our members.
  2. No photographs without express permission of the people being photographed.
  3. No means no. Unless you are involved in a scene where power play has been negotiated, you will respect a person’s right to consent. Any attempt to manipulate, convince, persuade, or otherwise coerce someone into doing something that they do not want to do will not be tolerated.
  1. Do not gossip. Do not repeat any 2nd hand information about any group or person unless you are certain that it is 100% factual.
  2. Live your life with honesty and integrity both in the bdsm community and the vanilla world.
  3. Membership in the OKC TNG group is conditional upon your approval by the board of directors and may be revoked at any time with or without cause. Situations that may cause your membership to be terminated include but are not limited to: being charged and/or convicted of a violent or sexual crime, failure to abide by any of the OKC TNG rules, failure to treat others with basic respect.
  1. We do not do background checks on everyone. We can not keep tabs on everyone nor does this group vouch for the reputation of any group member. Do not assume that someone is a totally sane person and that it is completely safe to go to their house alone because you met them at a TNG event.
  2. No trolling. It’s hard to define what exactly constitutes trolling but if “wanna scene?” is one of the first questions that you ask… you’re probably a troll.
  3. Members must be between the ages of 18 and 35. Significant others of people over 35 may be welcomed on a case by case basis upon their approval by the board of directors. Any persons older than 35 must be accompanied by a member under 35 to gain entry into any TNG event.
  4. If you run into someone from the group in a public setting, be polite. But do not refer to the group, parties, or anything lifestyle related in front their family, friends, or co-workers.
  5. Providing sexual services in exchange for money is illegal in the state of Oklahoma and will not be tolerated at any OKC TNG event.
  6. The use or exchange of illegal drugs is strictly prohibited at all OKC TNG events.
  7. Alcohol
    A) The moderate consumption of alcohol at OKC TNG events is allowed but drunkenness will not be tolerated.B) Underage drinking or providing alcohol to members who are underage is prohibited at all OKC TNG events.C) The safety of our members is the highest priority. Anyone deemed to be too intoxicated may be asked to refrain from sceneing or to leave the party.
  1. Please email one of the moderators and ask for permission before posting event announcements to the OKC TNG group
  2. Have Fun!

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