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  • Central America > United States of America (USA)
  • Facebook and Instagram of alternative sex. There is no place for many popular and successful social networks because if you use one or two – you will not use others, because you don’t have time and because you can already find all people at networks you use. So at the place which we will discover to you, you will find the most of various perverts in your location and in locations you plan to visit. That place is in the top 3000 most visited websites of the world and has the biggest user base among fetish and BDSM people
  • Central America > United States of America (USA)
  • Number 1 non-vanilla dating app for BDSM/fetish sex - the Tinder+Bumble+OkCupid+Badoo, all in the same place, but full of naked photos of bodies, dicks and vaginas of members who want only one thing: no string attached perverted sex with you!
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  • Illinois (IL) > Joliet city
  • PUT YOUR ADS HERE Simple. Rules: What Hella says….goes. Don’t block the mods or you’ll be removed.
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  • Kansas (KS) > Kansas City city
  • Kansas city affairs is a group that arranges intimate encounters for those into the BDSM lifestyle. Check our website for more details
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  • Kansas (KS) > Kansas City city
  • A group of switches and slaves in Kansas city. We meet to talk, learn, ask questions and voice our concerns on issues relating to our lifestyle..Do not remain in the closet
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  • Kansas (KS) > Kansas City city
  • A group based in Kansas. We support all kinksters and offer workshops and munches to help the fetish community.People from all races, genders and orientations are welcome
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  • Georgia (GA) > Kennesaw
  • People around Kennesaw who want to meet and have fun and discuss anything, no judgement or discrimination on what you look like or what you’re into. FUN is the magic word here. All topics on the table. We offer a monthly get together “munch” and an Educational Class once a month called “KKEDS” Munch meets the 2nd Tuesday of each month at Twin Peaks off Barrett Parkway in Kennesaw at 7:30 pm Cost is your meal and beverages. AND TIPPING YOUR AWESOME WAITRESS KK (Kennesaw Krew) is the name to ask for when you arrive at Twin Peaks. We meet in the large room as you enter turn LEFT go to tbe back room also have the ” Man Cave”…
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  • United States of America (USA) > Kentucky (KY)
  • This group is for all of those in the local kink community (Louisville, Lexington,Southern Indiana,etc) who are into or interested in age play. Not just for the littles, all roles and dynamics are welcome in the group and at our munch! The Kentucky Age Play munch meets on the third month of every month. More information can be found in the event listing post in the group, or through the monthly posts for the munch. This munch was created to give those of us in the age play community the chance to get together and discuss things that pertain to this particular aspect of the lifestyle that perhaps would not make such great discussion topics at one like Louisville Munch…
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  • United States of America (USA) > Kentucky (KY)
  • This is a group where Kentuckians and the surrounding areas can meet and chat. Feel free to post announcements or discussions, but please remember to be courteous and respectful to others. Let’s keep the drama to a minimum. Obvious trolling is unwelcome.
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  • Kansas (KS) > Kansas City city
  • All people into rope bondage are free to join this group to learn and discuss various issues on the art in its various forms
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  • Michigan (MI) > Kalamazoo city
  • A lifestyle group for people with an interest in lifestyle. We arrange munches and other gatherings so as to meet have fun and learn!
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  • Arizona (AZ) > Phoenix city
  • Welcome to our little corner of FetLife!! We started a few years ago offering Kink101 Peer Workshops(sm), designed to allow attendees to share their knowledge and enjoyment of various kink and fetish practices. We have never felt that basic kink and safety information, from relationship assessment to the best way to sharpen those knives, should be hidden behind a “pay-for-play” membership, knowledge shouldn’t cost anything to obtain. We love sharing our knowledge, and learning from everyone we meet. This group is designed to be all about that, learning and sharing, it is possible, even in this online environment. Because this is the innerwebs, living in Arizona is not really necessary to participate in the forums here, but in order to…
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  • Nebraska (NE) > Lincoln city
  • People from all walks of life with an interest in any kink are welcome to join Kink in Lincoln.
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  • Maine (ME) > Portland city
  • We are dedicated to catering to the needs of the alternative lifestyle people. We host awesome play parties, educational workshops and much more. Join us anytime
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  • United States of America (USA) > Arizona (AZ)
  • A haven for geeky kinksters / kinky geeks living in Arizona to connect, socialize, have a few laughs and to meet up for events, munches, cons and parties. Back in the Stone Age (the era of black & white tv, mainframes, pulp novels and cons that were held in a single room), the outside world firmly believed that geeks had little to no sexuality. They believed we were sexless beings living in our parents’ basements. Then along came the Internets and we were exposed for the pervs we were… 😀 What started as a whisper grew louder and is now a roar. Geek is a culture, with a history and a language rich in metaphor – and that translates into…
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  • United States of America (USA) > Minnesota (MN)
  • We are a community based on getting together and doing kinky, dirty despicable things and we think that is awesome! We go to parties, munches, discussion groups, skill sharings and classes. We talk non-stop about our kinks and what gets our juices flowing. But… what about the other things? In our crazy journey to find ourselves, our kinks and our limits we often forget to stop and smell the flowers. That is the idea and goal of this group. We are just some Minnesota Kinksters going out for some good old fashioned “vanilla” fun! Do you want to get a group of like-minded people together for a trip to a Museum? Go to the movies? Find out how dirty some…
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  • Kansas (KS) > Kansas City city
  • The title says it all. This is a group for those of us that live in the “vast wasteland” (said by the Philly girl) known as Kansas or nearby. Rules: No posting of __ANYONE’S__ personal information. This includes full name, address, phone numbers, place of work, etc. _If you wouldn’t want a stranger to know it about you, don’t post it about someone else!_ There is NO censorship in this group. I will __ONLY__ edit a post of someone else if it contains personal information about another person. Say what you mean, and mean what you say. Be adult enough to stand behind your words. No discussion of ANY topics banned by Fetlife’s terms of service. These include beastiality, pedophilia,…
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  • United States of America (USA) > Minnesota (MN)
  • A gathering place for BDSMers in the midwest state of Minnesota. Rules: Play nice Please: No games No trolling No personals No Panties sales and the like Any posts that are outside of the rules will be deleted without notice.
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  • United States of America (USA) > New Hampshire (NH)
  • Are you kinky? Are you in NH? Then you are in the right place. As far as the owner of the group even though his says he’s from New York City he loves New Hampshire and visits Portsmouth regularly! Rules: The only rule is to play nice.
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  • Missouri (MO) > Springfield city ####
  • for those who like to play “outside the norm” in Springfield mo Just a few rules to keep track of: NO insulting, bashing or flaming of other members within the group. This gets you instantly banned, period. This needs to be a safe space for all who are members here, not just your personal litterbox. Want ads are accepted. Event advertisements are accepted, just no posting for the same event more than twice a month. Group advertisements are accepted. If you have any questions, please contact UntamedHarley (find my name at the bottom of the page under “Owner” and that will take you right to my profile). If you have the owner banned, that’s instant grounds for removal from the…
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  • Missouri (MO) > Kansas City city #
  • This group is a centralized point for kinksters in the Kansas City metro and surrounding areas. Members will find information about events hosted by the various kink groups in Kansas City as well as nearby groups in Kansas, Missouri and other parts of the Midwest. Members are encouraged to discuss any and all topics relating to power exchange relationships, BDSM play techniques and/or other fetish-related activities. Discussions of community-related issues are also welcome.  
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  • United States of America (USA) > Oklahoma (OK)
  • This group is for those folks in and around Oklahoma who want a centralized place to meet up at Fetlife. So if you’ve been looking to meet people from the general area, come on in… the perversion’s fine! Rules: And since it needs to be spelled out….. play nice! no trolling. no flaming. no reposting of journal entries without permission from the writer. no posting repeated ads for yourself. (one is enough thank you very much). no inciting or pot stirring. see rule one again and don’t block the owner or moderators – fastest way to watch the ban-hammer in action!
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  • United States of America (USA) > Arizona (AZ)
  • For those people in Arizona who love both Swinging and BDSM. Post parties and events as well as discussions about combining the lifestyles. Keywords: BDSM, Swingers, Swinging, Swing, Az, Arizona, Phoenix Rules: All ads must go in the personals thread. Main discussion area is for events and topics of discussion. If you are advertising with a partner, they need to be on your profile or linked to it. No duplicate posting within 30 days. No blank profiles pictures, profile pictures of genitalia, or profile pictures of memes or cartoon characters, or objects. No blank profiles. Must have at least 2-3 paragraphs in your “about me” section. No personal info should be given in the ads No unicorn hunting No pnp…
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  • Indiana (IN) > Anderson city
  • All kinky people are free to join and have fun and fulfill all fantasies, at least in Kinky Indiana!
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  • Virginia (VA) > Norforlk
  • The organization is a voluntary fellowship of individuals having a common interest in the leather/Levi, BD/SM, and fetish lifestyles.  The organization seeks to foster a better understanding and appreciation of the lifestyles both among the members of the organization and within the community through social, charitable, educational endeavors and activities. The Knight Hawks host a monthly bar night / social every month at one of the local bars to give an outlet to the Leather / Levi / Fetish community and to meet new friends and reacquaint with old ones.  Some of our larger nights include our Kinky Klaus Toy Drive held every December, our Underwear / Best Basket contest held in the spring, Our Cage nights, and of course…
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  • New Jersey (NJ) > Fanwood
  • A BDSM support group in New Jersey. The group serves both as an educational and social vehicle
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  • Tennessee (TN) > Knoxville city
  • This is a group for BBW’s and there lovers in or around the Knoxville, TN area. You don’t have to be a BBW or a BBW lover to join but joining might teach you a few things about us. Rules: No Fat Bashing No Ads of any kind, please and thank you. No Erotic Stories (links are welcome)  
  • Central America > United States of America (USA)
  • A best place to start and continue your insanely active and at the same time safe alternative sexual life. It’s a way better to start it online and prepare for meetings in real life than do it at the bar or at the night club. Even BDSM dungeons and fetish conventions can be a great discouragement if you visit them without preparation. BTW most dungeons and local misstresses have their pages at the place we talk about.

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