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United States of America (USA) Fetish Clubs & BDSM Clubs


  • Central America > United States of America (USA)
  • Facebook and Instagram of alternative sex. There is no place for many popular and successful social networks because if you use one or two – you will not use others, because you don’t have time and because you can already find all people at networks you use. So at the place which we will discover to you, you will find the most of various perverts in your location and in locations you plan to visit. That place is in the top 3000 most visited websites of the world and has the biggest user base among fetish and BDSM people
  • Central America > United States of America (USA)
  • Number 1 non-vanilla dating app for BDSM/fetish sex - the Tinder+Bumble+OkCupid+Badoo, all in the same place, but full of naked photos of bodies, dicks and vaginas of members who want only one thing: no string attached perverted sex with you!
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  • Indiana (IN) > Blue Moon
  • A group that hopes to promote eduction and improve communication members, other groups and the society. We also protect our members against threats to our freedom
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  • Georgia (GA) > Gwinnett County
  • A kinky family/friends group that meets for munches regularly. No play whatsoever though there is a lot of fun for everybody. Welcome
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  • Virginia (VA) > Hampton
  • Alrighty, folks….I know we have some AWESOME groups on here that share vast knowledge, strong opinions, and many a good time. What we don’t have, however, is a group strictly for personals. I think it makes perfectly good sense to troll for someone local vs. another list that has worldwide members. Granted, you can find someone from halfway round the world who is a perfect match but that’s not always the most practical relationship to try and work out (trust Me on this one!). Rules: I don’t think we need 50 rules ‘cuz we are all technically adults, right? So, no sex for money/trade/etc. This is not a ‘hookup’ group, this is more for folks looking for a long term…
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  • Maine (ME) > Portland city
  • A levi/leather educational and social club that promotes diversity, open mindedness an the right to an alternative lifestyle.
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  • Connecticut (CT) > Hartford city
  • A place where those living in the suburbs surrounding Hartford (for example Glastonbury, East Hartford, West Hartford etc.) can discuss life, BDSM, and anything worthwhile in the area in a relaxed manner. Rules: Respect people’s boundaries, be a real person, be in the area. Also a quick note just saying who you are and a little about yourself as well in a timely manner is expected. If you have any confusion send me a message.
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  • Arizona (AZ) > Tucson city
  • This is for anyone in Tucson who want to get to know each other better and to also get in touch with ones (or many ones,,lol) who want to meet up for some naughty fun. Be it romance, poly, kink or booty calls.. you name it, this is the place to meet up and talk for Tucson. Gives us in Tucson a place to find others like us instead of accidentally doing so. Rules: be polite to everyone. If you are on here to meet up with people or put up posts to meet people, we really want the profiles to have something on there.. be it cropped photos for privacy or something and also something in you about me…
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  • Hawaii (HI) > Kaneohe
  • A site that looks for information and answers about the Hawaii fetish scene. Welcome!
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  • United States of America (USA) > Hawaii (HI)
  • It should go without saying but the Hawaii FetLife Group will enforce: All of FetLife’s Community Guidelines and Terms of Use. Please take a moment to view the updated information below. At the creation of this group there were no official rules. After a year it was time to update the information – please see the 3 rules at the bottom. Welcome to Hawaii Fetlife Group! Find out what’s happening in the Hawaiian Islands! This group is a discussion board to post upcoming BDSM related events, classes, advertise items or services, meet local kinksters in the area, and questions regarding the local community or activities. Be aware that lengthy debates are not welcome here. They will be asked politely to move elsewhere. Please…
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  • United States of America (USA) > Hawaii (HI)
  • A place to gather if you are searching for playmates, relationships, events, housing, or buying/selling equipment and goods for residents ONLY and visitors (viewing or replying ONLY)* to the state of Hawaii. If you are posting anything not specified above, please message group owner for prior approval or your ad will be deleted and/or closed. Rules: Only open to residents and visitors to Hawaii state. No spamming! PERIOD. ABSOLUTELY NO posting for sexual $ervice$ (pay to play, pay to watch, etc). It will be immediately deleted. All posts and comments must follow the Fetlife TOU. NOTE: All Males Looking To Meet WOMEN, Fet Life is not a Hook-Up / Dating site. It is a Kink site for BDSM! Stop asking to…
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  • Hawaii (HI) > Honolulu CDP
  • A community group whose aim is to reach and gather individuals with similar power exchange interests in Hawaii and the surrounding areas. Come share experiences and understand various aspects of lifestyle. All are welcome!
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  • Montana (MT) > Helena
  • A group that links the alternative lifestyle members in Montana, Helena and other areas through munches, play parties and discussion forums.
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  • San Francisco > San Francisco City
  • Men of all ages, body types and experience levels are welcome. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been fisting a couple of months or a couple of decades, you’ll find Hell Hole parties are a welcoming experience! All parties are PRIVATE and by INVITATION ONLY. It’s not a beauty contest, and we’re not being exclusive; just catering to serious players and not to those who just want to watch. How Do I Get an Invitation? To get an invitation to the Hell Hole® parties, just click the “Get Your Invitation” button and fill out the invitation request form. Invitations will be sent by email approximately 2 weeks before the party. You will be required to show a government-issued picture ID. The…
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  • Washington (WA) > Spokane city
  • The Hellfire Club of the Inland NW carries on the long tradition of the exclusive membership only, classic English style inner sanctum BDSM & Fetish Clubs. The orignal club was founded in 1719. This chapter was formed so that people who enjoy this lifestyle and yet regard privacy and discreetion as crucial, would have the appropriate arrangement to enjoy themselves. If you are interested in joining, their is an application and interview required for all applicates. Legally binding non-disclosure contracts will be required.
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  • New Jersey (NJ) > Jersey City city
  • Lifestyle BDSM Dungeon DUNGEON PLAY PARTY- Every Saturday Night SATURDAY NIGHT DUNGEON PLAY PARTIES  NO MEMBERSHIP REQUIRED  – NO DOOR FEES NO COSTS Open to all who are into the Scene or interested in learning about it from 8pm to 2am. No one admitted after 10:30pm ….The Mistresses of HellFireNJ are lifestyle Doms who created this play space to reflect their love and passion for the SCENE.  Together they created a special atmosphere that lives and breathes BDSM. Every corner of it is well kept and you can see the hard work and the amount of thought that went into it. Every candle is wisely located; every decoration is designed with good taste; the “dungeonesque” music reflects intimacy and sensuality.…
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  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • Are you a spanking fetishist? This is a club that hosts spanking parties on some Saturdays. Contact us for more details!
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  • Los Angeles > West Hollywood
  • This group is for people living in the Hollywood, Burbank, LA, and The Valley area. Now this covers a HUGE area and anyone living in Los Angeles is welcome to join us! In fact…if you live in SoCal…or visit SoCal or think about SoCal you are welcome to join. We have a Monthly Play Party 🙂 Open communication, participation & fun is highly encouraged. If you hear about a party or munch from another group, let us know. After all… this group is about everyone having a Spanktastic time! We have set up stickies for the next several months for events that our members would like to share with other members. You are free to post your event, as long…
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  • Maryland (MD) > Baltimore city
  • Hooker & Boys was formed by a group of close friends and Leather titleholders who united in 1999 in Baltimore, Maryland, to raise funds for charity as part of their Drummer Titleholder responsibilities. As a result of this event (The 12 Days of Christmas), Hooker & Boys became established as a community-based invitation-only Leather Club. Our goal is to serve the GLLBTSQ communities through fund-raising, support, and service. Since 1999, we have produced the annual 12 Days of Christmas fundraiser, Maryland Drummer and Drummerboy (2000-2001), Maryland LeatherSIR and Leatherboy (2002-2006), Mid-Atlantic Community Bootblack (2008-2015), and Mid-Atlantic LeatherSIR, Leatherboy and Leather Woman (2009-2015) Mid-Atlantic Leather Woman (2009 til 2015) contests. Lady Lisa Drag Stage @ Baltimore Pride in The Park (2007…
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  • San Francisco > San Francisco City
  • Want to meet someone within a 2 hour drive of San Francisco? Try it here. Full-blown long term relationships A date for an upcoming play party Practice sessions A casual relationship that might grow into more A single time to play Anything from one time to permanent – just be honest and forthright in your description Long term to short term, poly or monogamous. Just describe your interest.
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  • Arizona (AZ) > Scottsdale city
  • Horns & Halos welcomes you to participate in making the fetish community in Arizona awesome! The last few years were just a warmup for what’s coming up! We continue to put Arizona on the map as a world-class kink & fetish market. As you read this, we are constantly assembling fashion show lineups, belly dancing troupes, fire dancers, unique fetish demos, suspension artists, DJ’s, bands and vendors from all over Arizona and throughout the world! We are bringing the hottest people and personalities to keep the party thumpin’ & bumpin’ all night long! Our goals are to create, stimulate and evolve the Phoenix and Arizona fetish and kink communities through world class fetish/adult oriented events. We have an amazing team…
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  • Texas (TX) > Houston city
  • This group is for those who love mmf, ffm, mmff, ffmm and any other alphabet combination. We are dedicated to providing an avenue for couples and singles to enjoy this aspect of the lifestyle and to provide a fun, safe, respectful experience. Courtesy, respect and following each individuals parameters is the foundation for this group. Be respectful…. Everyone has their own parameters and individual interests. Also safe sex will be practiced at Rules: AS GROUP OWNER I reserve the right to remove threads and responses that violate the rules without notice to the post author. EVENT NOTICES ARE ALLOWED, however only ONE post per event. Feel free to update and bump event thread as much as you’d like. Multiple posts…
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  • Texas (TX) > Houston city
  • This group is for all BBW women and all the men and women who adore them, living in Houston and the surrounding area. Rules: AS GROUP OWNER I reserve the right to remove threads and responses that violate the rules without notice to the post author. EVENT NOTICES ARE ALLOWED, however only ONE post per event. Feel free to update and bump event thread as much as you’d like. Multiple posts about the same event notice will be deleted. This group is intended to support ALL events and activities THROUGHOUT all of Houston Also can deleted any Events no warning.  NO ATTACKS TOWARD OTHERS, No exceptions. You may have a different point of view, and expressing that difference is fine,…
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  • Texas (TX) > Houston city
  • Houston kink is here to serve as neutral ground. this group is here for discussions, event postings and also serves as a great place to put your foot in the door and get to know some people here in the Houston scene if you are new. This group is open to all kinks NO MATTER WHAT THEY ARE!!!! However, this is not a personal ads group – you can ask for advice or ask about events – OR – you can pimp your event and let people know about local gatherings. For personal ads please use the Houston Kinky Personals section. For more about local events please see the Houston Events Calendar, or the Houston Kinky Social Bulletin Board for upcoming events in the Houston…
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  • Texas (TX) > Houston city
  • A discussion and meeting place for both the RIGHT SIDE of the SLASH (subs, slaves property, bottoms) and the LEFT SIDE of the SLASH (Doms, Dommes, Masters, Mistresses, Owners and Tops) within the HOUSTON*** area to come together. This group is NOT for those who list themselves as ANYTHING other than a Dominant or a submissive. No Switches, Swingers, Hedonists, etc. There are other groups catering to your interests, please seek out one of them. If your profile seemingly indicates that you have changed your role most likely for the purposes of qualifying for this group, that will earn you a permanent ban. No Antarctica or other exotic locales. To be a member of this group your profile MUST indicate…
  • Central America > United States of America (USA)
  • A best place to start and continue your insanely active and at the same time safe alternative sexual life. It’s a way better to start it online and prepare for meetings in real life than do it at the bar or at the night club. Even BDSM dungeons and fetish conventions can be a great discouragement if you visit them without preparation. BTW most dungeons and local misstresses have their pages at the place we talk about.

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