Kinky and Geeky in Arizona FetLife group Fetish & BDSM Club

Address: Arizona, USA
Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/groups/8428

A haven for geeky kinksters / kinky geeks living in Arizona to connect, socialize, have a few laughs and to meet up for events, munches, cons and parties.

Back in the Stone Age (the era of black & white tv, mainframes, pulp novels and cons that were held in a single room), the outside world firmly believed that geeks had little to no sexuality. They believed we were sexless beings living in our parents’ basements. Then along came the Internets and we were exposed for the pervs we were… 😀

What started as a whisper grew louder and is now a roar. Geek is a culture, with a history and a language rich in metaphor – and that translates into who we are as sexual beings. Serious roleplaying in the bedroom in our world doesn’t mean putting on a French maid outfit, it means bringing your dice to bed and rolling for initiative or doing a full out cosplay. We are difficult to categorize, as we encompass so many contradictions. There are Goreans among us, who completely embrace hierarchy, but there are also Heinlein polys, who challenge hierarchies/ownership of any kind.

A few generalizations can be safely made, however. We need to be intellectually stimulated to be turned on. It’s about what you know, what you’re passionate about, rather than what you look like that matters here. We consume pop culture, science, history, tech, literature, etc and bring it into every aspect of our lives, including our sex lives. We are unquestionably size queens when it comes to our partners’ brains. As Wil Wheaton said, “It’s not what we love, but how we love it”.

We are a laidback group, with 2 monthly munches plus occasional events when the stars are right. Always looking for volunteers to help take this group to the next level. The longterm dream is to create an annual kinky & geeky con, much like the ones in Atlanta and NJ.

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